3 Dreams to a Better World

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Daohe · Jan 13, 2025
Everyone has their own unique dream for a better world. My dream, however, is to make more people happy. This is not only my pursuit but also my belief — that happiness can be the ultimate destination for everyone, and that human kindness, the connections between people, and collective action can change the temperature of […]

Everyone has their own unique dream for a better world. My dream, however, is to make more people happy. This is not only my pursuit but also my belief — that happiness can be the ultimate destination for everyone, and that human kindness, the connections between people, and collective action can change the temperature of this world. This is why I confounded Yicheng Commonweal, and through this journey, I have come to realize that the essence of charity is not only in giving but also in co-building the bridges and bonds of happiness.

For a better world, happiness lies in dreams, hopes, and connections

When I was a child, I believed that happiness was a deeply personal feeling—something shaped by small hopes and dreams, like having a fulfilling job, a loving home, or the chance to travel the world. But over time, I came to realize that what seems like simple desires to some are distant and unreachable dreams for many others across the world. In fact, in faraway places, there are countless others living in extreme hardship and turmoil.

I used to feel powerless, lost, and overwhelmed by this realization. But as I began my work in Yicheng Commonweal, I realized that happiness is not just a personal feeling—but a hope, a force that can grow and spread. It is not merely an individual experience, but a connection between people. It’s one dream inspiring another, and many hands working together to create something far bigger than any one person could achieve alone.

It is this very faith that led me to establish Yicheng Commonweal. Our dream is for everyone to attain well-being and happiness, even though many dismiss it as unrealistic and scoff at the idea. Indeed, the bigger the dream, the greater the support and resources required. But history will bear witness that the shared human desire for happiness will overcome all obstacles and turn this vision into a reality.

Whether it’s the expansion of education, the improvement of living standards, or the nurturing of the spirit, happiness is not as distant as it may seem. As long as there are people committed to making it happen, it can spread like a gentle spring breeze into every corner. Yicheng Commonweal is not just a NGO with a mission, but represents a collective pursuit of happiness for a better world. This belief reinforces my conviction that building such an organization is not only the right choice, but also the most effective way to make dreams come true.

My dream: making happiness accessible to everyone for a better world

Even though Yicheng Commonweal is still in its early stages, I have already come to realize that happiness isn’t some abstract idea—it is something that can be shaped and shared.

I once had a conversation with a 16-year-old volunteer who shared her dream with me. She was working hard to learn a foreign language with the goal of studying abroad, and she had been tirelessly working to save money so she could eventually create a language learning center in her hometown. Although she was already on the path to making her dream a reality, she often found herself overwhelmed with self-doubt and anxiety about whether her dreams would ever come true.

I told her earnestly that her future held limitless potential, and that all she needed to do was keep trying. I also introduced her to some resources that could help her overcome the challenges she was facing at that moment. She was deeply moved and said that, aside from her parents, no one had ever encouraged or supported her like that. She couldn’t believe that there were such kind people in the world.

She said that she hoped to become someone like me someday and help more people in the future and make a better world.

At that moment, I was taken aback, because I suddenly realized that the possibility of happiness doesn’t lie in making a big change or having vast material resources and power. It lies in taking real action to make someone feel that they are not alone—that there are people who care about their existence and genuinely love them. At the same time, I made a quiet vow to transform this love into the power of public welfare, to help more people and give everyone the chance to realize their dreams and find happiness for a better world.

This experience also taught me an important lesson: charity is not just about one-way giving. It is about the connection of souls between people. Many people hesitate to care for others and the world, not because they lack the ability, but because they don’t believe that such a great love exists in the world. Once they have a personal experience and encounter it for themselves, they are impressed, and they become more willing to embrace the world and release their own love and kindness.

Therefore, each action is a crucial step toward happiness. With each attempt and effort, we unlock more possibilities for happiness and gather the strength of more people to make it a reality. When we light up someone else’s hope, we also gain a clearer understanding of the true meaning of happiness.

A dream is a commitment to make our planet a better world to coexist

The experiences in Yicheng Commonweal has taught me that happiness is not something to wait for, but something that must be created together. This creation is not about one-sided giving, but about transforming goodwill into a lasting force, making each person a builder of happiness.

The philosophy of Yicheng Commonweal embodies this very idea. Through the promotion of education, the inheritance of culture, and the guidance of faith, we are not just helping others solve immediate problems. We are building a bridge for them to reach happiness to create a better world. This approach of “teaching people to fish” has shown me that true philanthropy is not about one-time charity, but about planting the seeds of happiness deeply in every person’s heart, enabling them to sow and harvest for themselves.

For me, this is also a promise—a promise to dedicate my time and actions to protect the possibility of happiness for a better world, a promise to ensure that every act of kindness gathers into a force capable of changing destinies, and a promise that, come what may, I will persist on this path, never turning back.

The end of my dream: a world of collective happiness creates a better world

I really love the image of “flying.”

Humanity’s obsession with flying gave birth to the invention of airplanes. Without the yearning for the skies or the dream of soaring through the heavens, none of this would have been possible.

The journey to realizing a dream is much like flying.

The journey toward fulfilling dreams is never without its challenges. In my pursuit of welfare ideal, there were moments when I felt exhausted and powerless, times when I doubted whether my efforts would truly bring about change.

But each time, it is these experiences that reaffirm my belief: the true destination of flight is never personal glory, but a better world of happiness meant for all of humanity.

What Yicheng Commonweal does is not just helping individuals solve their immediate problems. It is about building a society with greater well-being. Through education, we change the future of a child; through economics, we help people grow in material wealth; through care, we bring warmth to lonely souls; and through collective effort, we ensure that everyone can feel the dignity and meaning of life.

This is not only my dream, but also the shared pursuit of every person involved in philanthropy.

Conclusion

I always fly with my dream. The significance of this dream goes far beyond personal ambition. It is a belief rooted in the world and in the happiness of every life. Through Yicheng Commonweal, I have discovered the way to turn this dream into reality, and I have come to understand the true purpose of philanthropy. It is not about being a “giver,” but about being a co-builder and co-creator of happiness for a better world.

No matter how many challenges lie ahead, I will continue to soar with this dream. Because I know that this is not only my personal mission to make a better world, but also a commitment to the world and to everyone who walks this path with me. Happiness is our shared destination, and flying is the way we reach it.

Let’s gather in action, my friends. I am Daohe, the cofounder of Yicheng Commonweal!

 

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思维返祖

Daohe · Jan 24, 2025

思维返祖现象的思考:从思维逻辑与习惯重置的角度深度剖析 一、何为思维返祖? “思维返祖”并非单纯的倒退,而是指在复杂认知环境中,个体或群体因无法适应思维深度与广度的要求,选择回归更简单、更低阶的思维模式。这种现象既是一种应激反应,也是长期思维习惯重置的结果,其核心表现在于:用简单化的直觉与二元对立逻辑取代了多层次分析与系统化思考。 在现代社会的信息压力下,这种现象愈加普遍:个体往往在短期高效与长期深入之间选择前者,结果导致原本的深度思维能力被反复重置,逐渐形成“浅层认知化”的趋势。这种趋势不仅限制了人类分析问题的能力,更可能削弱社会整体的思维创新潜力。 二、思维返祖的核心逻辑 思维返祖现象的背后,隐含着几个重要的逻辑特征: 1. 逃避复杂性,偏向单一性 现代问题往往具有复杂的多维特征,但思维返祖的人更倾向于将问题简单化,追求单一视角下的快速答案。这种逻辑可以用“二元对立模式”来概括,即将世界划分为非黑即白、非对即错的简单格局。这种模式看似直接有效,却忽略了现实的多样性与矛盾性。 例如,在面对社会争议时,人们更容易选择“支持/反对”的立场,而不愿花时间去分析背后的原因与细节。这种简化逻辑削弱了系统性思考的可能性,让复杂问题变得表面化、情绪化。 2. 惯性思维的强化与固化 思维习惯的形成具有强烈的路径依赖性。返祖现象往往建立在一种“省力机制”之上:大脑习惯选择曾经快速解决问题的思维模式,从而避免耗费更多的认知资源。长期如此,个体的逻辑思维能力会逐渐退化,变得机械且僵化。 例如,教育模式中过度强调固定答案的标准化考试,会让学生形成依赖“唯一正确答案”的惯性,而非追求问题多解的思维模式。这种惯性强化导致深度思维和开放性思维的缺乏,让人们更倾向于走“最简单”的旧路,而不愿探索新路。 3. 情绪优先于理性,第一反应优先于逻辑 返祖式思维常以情绪为驱动核心,表现为用感性判断替代理性分析。人类的情绪反应通常比逻辑分析更快、更直接,这让人们在面对压力或复杂问题时,容易用简单的情绪化方式处理问题,而非从逻辑层面深度思考。例如,愤怒、恐惧等情绪往往会促使人们快速得出结论,而不顾问题的全貌。这种“情绪至上”的倾向进一步限制了思维链条的延展性。 三、思维习惯重置与分析能力的退化 1. 思维习惯重置的本质:短期效率与长期能力的矛盾 思维习惯的重置本质上是一种“效率优先”的认知策略。当大脑面对高强度信息输入时,优先选择“快捷通道”解决问题,而非“深度通道”。这种思维模式看似是一种资源优化,但实则削弱了长期的分析与创新能力。 神经科学中的神经可塑性概念表明,随着经验和学习的变化,大脑会通过改变神经连接来调整思维模式。因此,当人们频繁依赖快捷的思维通道时,原有的深度思考能力会逐渐减弱,进而影响更高阶的认知功能,如创新与批判性思维。尽管这种“快速反应”策略可以应对短期信息处理需求,但它限制了人类思维的灵活性,减少了思维的多样性。 具体而言,这种重置过程包含以下几个阶段: 2. 分析能力退化的表现 四、思维返祖的现代社会诱因 1. 信息过载与认知疲劳 现代社会的信息密度远超历史任何时期,人们必须在短时间内处理大量复杂信息。这种情况下,大脑倾向于选择快捷的处理方式,即“返祖式思维”。久而久之,深度思维的激活成本变得过高,浅层思维逐渐成为主流。 2. 碎片化环境的负面影响 社交媒体、短视频等碎片化信息环境进一步加剧了思维的表面化倾向。这些平台通过情绪化内容刺激短期注意力,强化了快速决策而非深度分析的思维模式。 3. 教育与社会文化的局限 在一些社会文化中,教育往往更注重知识的输入与标准化,而忽视对逻辑思维与分析能力的训练。例如,考试以快速解答为导向,忽略问题推导的深度过程,这进一步推动了思维返祖的习惯形成。 五、打破思维返祖的路径 1. 延展思维链条,培养复杂性容忍度 2. 限制碎片化刺激,回归深度思考 3. 引导教育改革,关注思维过程 结语 思维返祖现象的本质在于人类对复杂性的逃避,而习惯重置则是这种现象的放大器。面对这一趋势,我们需要主动抵抗碎片化与表面化的思维环境,重新培养深度思考的能力与习惯。只有通过系统的训练和自我调整,人类才能从“返祖”的惯性中摆脱,走向更加全面、深刻的思维进化之路。

How Kindness Can Revive Civilization

Daohe · Jan 24, 2025

Early human civilization originated from the connection and mutual assistance between humans. At that time, it was the goodwill and cooperation among individuals that enabled them to survive together and move toward prosperity in the face of natural threats. From the collaborative hunting efforts of primitive societies to the public irrigation systems of agricultural civilizations, […]

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