What is real success?

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Daohe · Oct 31, 2024
People are often obsessed with external standards of success, caught up in comparisons and competition, and view success as an end goal. However, for every human being, we are born successful. From the moment life first blooms, our life carries unique meaning and value. Regardless of wealth or status, our existence in this world is […]

People are often obsessed with external standards of success, caught up in comparisons and competition, and view success as an end goal. However, for every human being, we are born successful. From the moment life first blooms, our life carries unique meaning and value. Regardless of wealth or status, our existence in this world is an achievement in itself. Though we may sometimes feel discouraged by external standards in the rush of life, the miracle of simply existing somewhere and the meaning it holds are never dimmed by others. As we stand on this earth, every life holds unique value.

For a person in pursuit of happiness, success is a journey rich with experiences. Along this path, the journey itself often has a deeper meaning than reaching any destination. People yearn for happiness and self-realization, but happiness is not something gained in a single moment. Instead, it is often derived from experiences over time. In the warmth of family, the sweetness of love, the companionship of friendship, and the trials of hardship, one grows up and become a better person. At some point, one comes to realize that true happiness is not about what one achieves, but rather about how one perceives life and feel the world. This inner content is the greatest success on the path toward a fulfilled and joyful life.

For a person who is fighting for justice and resisting oppression, success means attaining the state of freedom and democracy. On this path, success is a difficult prize to win, accompanied by the pain of struggle and the persistence of never giving in. To the oppressed, success is not about fame or wealth, but about breaking free from injustice and overcoming restrictions to gain dignity and equal rights. Throughout history, countless individuals and groups have fought for freedom, not just for themselves, but also for humanity.

In the face of oppression and injustice, some people choose to speak out, to resist, and to advocate for freedom for ourselves and others. It is through the successes of these resistors that we witness the world gradually moving toward equality, respect, and freedom. As Nelson Mandela said, “I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it.” On this path of resistance, success is finding the courage to overcome fear.

For a life endowed with civic rights, success is a commitment to society. When we have rights and the opportunities to articulate, true success goes beyond personal achievement. Real success lies in using our power to improve the state of society, to make changes that help make our communities, cities, nations, and even the world a better place.

This success is no longer about personal fulfillment but a commitment to others and to society. It’s an unselfish act that brings well-being to others rather than just a sense of individual accomplishment. As Gandhi said, “Be the change you wish to see in the world.” In striving for social progress, success is about continuously advancing the world toward greater civility and happiness.

So, what is success, and who is it for? It varies from person to person, not as a fixed point but as a dynamic process. It resembles an ever-growing historical masterpiece, transforming with each step of time. For some, it may mean a stable life with safety and content. For others, it could be profound self-realization or actions aimed at bringing happiness to others. Success is not only a personal triumph but a reflection of the times. There is no single definition of success—it is a unique and evolving journey for each individual.

Your attitude toward success and the goals you set will determine the direction of your life. Success is not a static endpoint but a process that transforms as our understanding and aspirations evolve. No matter material wealth,  spiritual freedom or societal progress, how we define and approach success shapes the kind of future we create for ourselves.

So, what does “success” mean to us today? In this age of globalization and information, success is no longer just about individual achievement, but rather a collective responsibility. Today’s success should embody the ideal of “complete citizenship for all humanity.” What does it mean to be a complete citizen? It transcends national identity and encompasses a global consciousness, representing social citizens or even global citizens. These individuals, regardless of geography or ethnicity, view the well-being and happiness of all humanity as a shared goal.

Our initiativeYicheng Commonweal is founded on this vision. Our success is not about personal glory. It is about the collective well-being and dignity of every individual. We are committed to advancing human civilization and social well-being, which is both our responsibility and our mission.

Real success is making every individual enjoy both joy and respect in this world.

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社会组织中的家庭组织:婚姻观念的历史性变迁

Yicheng · Feb 22, 2025

从封建到现代:婚姻观念的历史性转变 婚姻自古以来便是社会的基石,承载着人与人之间的情感、责任与文化传承。然而,在封建社会中,婚姻制度深受性别和阶级不平等的影响,尤其是“男方付出礼金”的习俗,体现了封建社会对女性的物化与家庭之间的经济交换关系。 随着时代变迁、社会思想的进步,以及社会公民资本市场经济体制的发展,婚姻的本质和社会功能正在发生深刻变革。从封建婚姻到现代平等婚姻,再到未来的社会公民资本市场经济体制下的社会共同责任婚姻,婚姻已不再只是个人或家庭的事务,而逐渐成为社会整体发展的重要组成部分。 一、封建制度国家的非公民婚姻:男方付出礼金的婚姻交易模式 在封建社会,婚姻不仅仅是个人情感的结合,更是家族利益的延续。男方支付礼金不仅是一种经济行为,更体现了男性在婚姻中的主导地位,而女性则被视为家庭资产的一部分。 礼金的本质是一种“交换”,即男方以金钱换取女方的归属权,这使得女性在婚姻关系中处于被动地位。女性的婚姻价值往往由家族背景、社会阶层以及经济能力决定,而非个人的意愿、能力或情感需求。婚姻决策往往掌握在长辈手中,个人的自由选择权被极大地压缩。 然而,随着女性社会地位的提高、教育的普及以及法治的发展,人们开始质疑这种基于经济交易的婚姻模式。现代社会更加强调个体价值和自由意志,越来越多的年轻人摒弃了礼金传统,婚姻逐渐回归到情感、理解与责任的基础之上。 二、资本制度国家的国家公民婚姻:双方面的平等付出 在资本制度国家,婚姻从一种家族契约演变为个人之间的平等合作关系。在这一体系下,婚姻的核心不再是家族利益的交换,而是双方基于情感、经济与社会责任的共同承诺。 现代婚姻的变化体现在多个方面: 这种双方面的付出,使婚姻从封建社会的单向交换关系,转变为更加稳定和公平的合作模式。 三、社会公民资本市场经济体制下的社会公民婚姻:社会共同的责任 随着社会的进步,婚姻不再仅仅是个体之间的承诺,而是社会整体发展的重要组成部分。在社会公民资本市场经济体制下,婚姻被纳入社会责任体系,国家、社会与家庭共同承担婚姻的稳定与发展。 这一体系下的婚姻制度具有以下特征: 在这一体系下,婚姻的稳定不仅是夫妻双方的责任,更是整个社会的责任。 社会不再是婚姻的旁观者,而是通过制度保障婚姻的健康发展,使婚姻成为社会共同繁荣的一部分。 结语 婚姻制度的演变,是社会进步的重要体现。从封建社会的经济交换婚姻,到现代资本制度下的平等婚姻,再到未来的社会公民资本市场经济体制下的社会责任婚姻,婚姻的本质不断被重塑。 现代婚姻的发展趋势表明,婚姻不仅是个人的事情,更是社会整体运作的一部分。未来,婚姻制度将在更加公平、共享、责任共担的基础上,迎来新的发展阶段。

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