What is real success?

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Daohe · Oct 31, 2024
People are often obsessed with external standards of success, caught up in comparisons and competition, and view success as an end goal. However, for every human being, we are born successful. From the moment life first blooms, our life carries unique meaning and value. Regardless of wealth or status, our existence in this world is […]

People are often obsessed with external standards of success, caught up in comparisons and competition, and view success as an end goal. However, for every human being, we are born successful. From the moment life first blooms, our life carries unique meaning and value. Regardless of wealth or status, our existence in this world is an achievement in itself. Though we may sometimes feel discouraged by external standards in the rush of life, the miracle of simply existing somewhere and the meaning it holds are never dimmed by others. As we stand on this earth, every life holds unique value.

For a person in pursuit of happiness, success is a journey rich with experiences. Along this path, the journey itself often has a deeper meaning than reaching any destination. People yearn for happiness and self-realization, but happiness is not something gained in a single moment. Instead, it is often derived from experiences over time. In the warmth of family, the sweetness of love, the companionship of friendship, and the trials of hardship, one grows up and become a better person. At some point, one comes to realize that true happiness is not about what one achieves, but rather about how one perceives life and feel the world. This inner content is the greatest success on the path toward a fulfilled and joyful life.

For a person who is fighting for justice and resisting oppression, success means attaining the state of freedom and democracy. On this path, success is a difficult prize to win, accompanied by the pain of struggle and the persistence of never giving in. To the oppressed, success is not about fame or wealth, but about breaking free from injustice and overcoming restrictions to gain dignity and equal rights. Throughout history, countless individuals and groups have fought for freedom, not just for themselves, but also for humanity.

In the face of oppression and injustice, some people choose to speak out, to resist, and to advocate for freedom for ourselves and others. It is through the successes of these resistors that we witness the world gradually moving toward equality, respect, and freedom. As Nelson Mandela said, “I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it.” On this path of resistance, success is finding the courage to overcome fear.

For a life endowed with civic rights, success is a commitment to society. When we have rights and the opportunities to articulate, true success goes beyond personal achievement. Real success lies in using our power to improve the state of society, to make changes that help make our communities, cities, nations, and even the world a better place.

This success is no longer about personal fulfillment but a commitment to others and to society. It’s an unselfish act that brings well-being to others rather than just a sense of individual accomplishment. As Gandhi said, “Be the change you wish to see in the world.” In striving for social progress, success is about continuously advancing the world toward greater civility and happiness.

So, what is success, and who is it for? It varies from person to person, not as a fixed point but as a dynamic process. It resembles an ever-growing historical masterpiece, transforming with each step of time. For some, it may mean a stable life with safety and content. For others, it could be profound self-realization or actions aimed at bringing happiness to others. Success is not only a personal triumph but a reflection of the times. There is no single definition of success—it is a unique and evolving journey for each individual.

Your attitude toward success and the goals you set will determine the direction of your life. Success is not a static endpoint but a process that transforms as our understanding and aspirations evolve. No matter material wealth,  spiritual freedom or societal progress, how we define and approach success shapes the kind of future we create for ourselves.

So, what does “success” mean to us today? In this age of globalization and information, success is no longer just about individual achievement, but rather a collective responsibility. Today’s success should embody the ideal of “complete citizenship for all humanity.” What does it mean to be a complete citizen? It transcends national identity and encompasses a global consciousness, representing social citizens or even global citizens. These individuals, regardless of geography or ethnicity, view the well-being and happiness of all humanity as a shared goal.

Our initiativeYicheng Commonweal is founded on this vision. Our success is not about personal glory. It is about the collective well-being and dignity of every individual. We are committed to advancing human civilization and social well-being, which is both our responsibility and our mission.

Real success is making every individual enjoy both joy and respect in this world.

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漫談:人生における友情のいくつかの段階

Yicheng · Apr 6, 2025

人生という旅路において、友情は鏡のようなものであり、私たちの心の成長と生命の変化を映し出してくれます。幼い頃の無邪気な遊び仲間から、晩年における魂が通じ合った知己に至るまで、友情にも「段階」というものがあります。それは決して不変のものではなく、私たちの認識、価値観、そして人生の状態と共に、絶えず進化していくのです。以下に、人生における友情の主な五つの段階を挙げます。その一つひとつの層が、成長の証なのです。 第一段階:幼少期の遊び仲間——友情の芽生え 幼年期は、人間性が初めて開花する段階であり、友情の種もここで静かに蒔かれます。この段階の友情は、単純で純粋です。利益が絡むこともなく、価値観の一致が求められることもなく、多くは時間や空間の共有と、共通の遊びの楽しさに基づいていました。 第二段階:アイデンティティを共有する仲間——「自分とは誰か」を探して 思春期に入ると、個人は強い自己意識を持ち始めます。この時期の友情は、外的な活動から内面的な感情の交流へと移行し、友人同士は思想や秘密、悩みを分かち合うようになります。 これは、友情が初めて「内面的な自己同一性」と結びついた段階です。私たちは、ただ友人を受け入れるだけでなく、友人を選ぶことを始めるのです。 第三段階:支え合い、協力し合う仲間——共創と相互扶助の友情 成人初期から中年期は、人生で最も責任が重く、社会的な役割が最も多い段階です。友情もまた、単なる付き合いや愚痴を言い合うだけの関係ではなく、仕事や人生において互いに支え合い、共に成長するための資源となっていきます。 この段階の友情には、協力、利益、そして責任といった要素が溶け込み始めます。しかし、人生の厳しさゆえに、このような「苦楽を共にする」友情は、しばしばより強固で、より深いものとなるのです。 第四段階:精神世界を分かち合う仲間——互いを慰める、優しい灯台 中年期を越え、老年期へと入ると、経験と人生の深みが、価値観の昇華をもたらします。この段階の友情は、次第に功利的な側面から離れ、心の共鳴と精神的な安らぎを求めるようになります。 この段階における真の友人とは、「外面的な世界」における協力者ではなく、あなたの「内なる秩序」の共鳴者なのです。 第五段階:魂の伴侶——互いを照らし合う、生涯の知己 これは、友情における最高の段階です。言葉を必要とせず、言葉以上に深い、魂のレベルでの結びつきです。この種の友人は、決して多くはなく、一生のうちに一人出会えれば幸運かもしれません。しかし、その存在は、あなたの人生が無駄ではなかったと、確信させてくれるでしょう。 魂の伴侶とは、歳月が積み重なって初めて出会える可能性のある存在です。彼らは、あなたが自ら選んだ「友人」ではなく、運命が与えてくれた「知己」なのです。 結語:友情は、人生における成熟の縮図である 友情の段階とは、優劣を比べるものではなく、あなたの人生の各段階における必要性と成長を示してくれるものです。幼少期の「遊び仲間」から、晩年の「魂の知己」に至るまで、一つひとつの友情は鏡となり、私たちが世界をどう理解し、他人をどう理解し、そして自分自身をどう理解してきたかを映し出してくれます。。 成熟とは、友人が増え続けることではありません。誰が、本当に共に歩む価値のある人なのかを、あなたが次第に理解していくことです。人生の旅路は、時に孤独かもしれませんが、真の友情とは、広大な人々の海の中で、互いの心の灯火を灯し合うことなのです。

L’amitié à différents stades de la vie

Yicheng · Apr 6, 2025

Tout au long de la vie, l’amitié est comme un miroir qui reflète notre évolution et le chemin parcouru. Des compagnons de jeu insouciants de l’enfance aux compagnons d’âme de nos vieux jours, l’amitié n’est pas statique : elle évolue au fur et à mesure que notre esprit se développe, que nos valeurs changent et […]

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