Self-discovery involves understanding ourselves, others, and the world around us

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Yicheng · Oct 23, 2024
In today’s world, where information is overwhelming, it’s easy to feel lost and confused. We’re all trying to find our way, looking to understand ourselves, others, and the world around us. But this process isn’t something that happens overnight. Instead, it takes a lot of time and reflection. In this column, we will share conversations […]

In today’s world, where information is overwhelming, it’s easy to feel lost and confused. We’re all trying to find our way, looking to understand ourselves, others, and the world around us. But this process isn’t something that happens overnight. Instead, it takes a lot of time and reflection. In this column, we will share conversations and personal stories that highlight the unique experiences of different people, helping us all to better grasp what it means to be human and to navigate our own journeys of self-discovery.

Understanding Oneself: A Journey from Within

Understanding oneselves is an ongoing journey. It goes beyond simply recognizing one’s interests, hobbies, and strengths, but involves delving into motivations, emotions, and values. We often lose sight of who we truly are due to societal expectations, the opinions of others, or external influences. To remain authentic in such a world, it is necessary to listen to our inner voice and confront our flaws and vulnerabilities.

As we navigate our identities, we find that our perceptions and expectations evolve at different stages of life. In our teenage years, we often seek acceptance and a sense of belonging. As adults, we shift our focus toward personal growth and achievements. By the time we reach old age, understanding the meaning of life takes center stage. Reflecting on our experiences at various stages helps us gain clarity about ourselves, comprehend the reasons behind our choices, and uncover the true motivations driving those decisions.

Understanding Others: the Power of Empathy and Compassion

In our interactions with others, learning to see things from their perspective and understanding their emotions and viewpoints is crucial. Understanding others goes beyond just knowing their background and experiences. It involves empathizing with people and connecting to their feelings as well as experiences from a deeper perspective.

By sharing the stories of various individuals, we aim to break down stereotypes and showcase diverse life experiences.Whether it is about ordinary people or celebrities, everyone’s journey is filled with challenges and stories of growth.By learning from others’ journeys and reflecting on our own, we become more capable of respecting and embracing different lifestyles and viewpoints.

Understand the World: Expanding Our Horizons and Embracing Cross-Cultural Understanding

The world is vast and diverse, with each person experiencing it from a unique perspective. To truly understand the world, we need to continually broaden our horizons and engage with people from different cultures, societies, and backgrounds. It’s only by viewing things through multiple lenses that we can grasp the complexity of the world and find our footing in an ever-changing landscape.

We should strive to understand not just the customs and traditions of various countries, but also the significant events and trends that shape global dynamics. By observing and reflecting on different cultures and social phenomena, we can uncover the threads of human civilization’s development, leading to a deeper understanding of our shared fate throughout history.

 

Celebrating Life’s Uniqueness: Finding Strength in Stories

In this section, we will showcase the unique aspects of each person’s life through engaging conversations and personal stories. Some tales may seem ordinary at first glance, but they often pack a powerful emotional punch; others might be filled with challenges, and it is those ups and downs that truly add depth to our experiences. Regardless of their backgrounds, these stories invite us to reflect on life’s diversity and our shared human emotions.

Each life is a distinct world, and together they weave the rich tapestry of our society.By sharing these varied stories, we aim to help readers find connections in their own journeys and foster a better understanding of others, ultimately empowering them to adapt and shape the world around them.

Conclusion

Understanding ourselves, others, and the world is an ongoing journey of self-exploration. Throughout this process, we continually refresh our perspectives on life, enrich our inner worlds, and deepen our sense of empathy for humanity and the vastness of the world. We hope this section inspires you and encourages everyone to keep moving forward on their life journey, seeking out their own unique value.

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这方世界昼夜不停的“潮信”

这方世界昼夜不停的“潮信”

Master Wonder · Jun 12, 2025

在这方世界,最响亮的声音,不是赞美,不是祈愿,不是劝诫,而是嘲笑。 那是一种如影随形、昼夜不息的“潮信”。它不像潮水轰然涌来,而是如窸窣细语般,渗透在每个角落,流淌在每个人心底。它以千百种面孔出现,却只有一个本质——对未知的恐惧,对不属于自身范畴的一切,发自本能的拒斥与戏谑。 麻木者嘲笑觉者。因为觉醒之人,扰乱了麻木之人的幻梦。 当年屈原执笔《离骚》,劝谏楚王,反被群臣讥为“疯癫之徒”;鲁迅弃医从文,揭世疾时,被讽刺“尖刻、偏激、唱衰”;今天,凡是敢指出社会病灶、追问制度深因的人,总被骂作“愤青”“键盘侠”“没事找事”。 世人宁可蜷缩在熟悉的困顿里,享受短暂温饱与虚妄安全,也不愿直视真实破败。于是,当有人指向黑暗,他们便说他疯了;当有人高举火炬,他们便讥他妄想拯救世界。 胆小者嘲笑勇敢。因为勇敢者揭示了他们的不堪。 你看,电影《肖申克的救赎》里,安迪在监狱屋顶争取一瓶啤酒,被讥笑“装英雄”;现实里,每一个站出来为正义发声的人,微博评论区、论坛热帖,少不了“多管闲事”“自寻麻烦”“人家都不管你激动啥”。 世上多少人,口口声声“顺势而为”“保命要紧”,却在暗夜里悄悄羡慕那些敢逆水行舟的人。为了掩饰自己的怯懦,他们嘲弄前行者“徒劳”“自不量力”,把别人失败的可能,当作自己苟活下去的遮羞布。 伪善者嘲笑正义。因为正义之人照出了伪善者的丑陋。 网络上但凡有人为底层疾苦发声,立刻有人跳出来:“别装圣母”“你行你上”。他们常常披着道德外衣,行着自利之事,口口声声“天下苍生”“众生平等”,可真正面对是非之际,转身就与权力、利益同流。 为了避免被正义之光照破,他们宁愿先下手为强,将持守原则的人描绘成极端、偏执、伪君子。 无知者嘲笑学识。因为知识让他们感到自卑。 “你读那么多书有用吗?”“做学问能当饭吃?”“讲道理谁不会?”这些话,常常在饭桌聚会、同事闲聊、短视频评论里听见。 在无知者眼里,复杂思考、不合群见解、对世界规律的探究,都是多余、无用、虚妄。 那些劝人“别太认真,大家都混口饭吃就行了”的,最怕的就是有人真的去较真,真的去思考,真的看清了规则。 苟且者嘲笑光明。因为光明昭示了他们所处的黑暗。 在《辛德勒的名单》里,辛德勒冒险救犹太人时,身边商人讥他“多管闲事”;现实生活中,那些去山区支教、助农直播、救助流浪狗的人,总有人冷笑:“炒作”“作秀”“图热度”。 苟且者不敢承认这个世界可以更好,不愿相信人性有另一种可能,不肯放弃眼前一口残羹冷炙。 他们说:“你太天真了”,仿佛世间唯一成熟,就是随波逐流、见利忘义、认命躺平。 退步者嘲笑正进。因为前行的人,无声地在提醒他们停滞不前。 很多企业里,谁要是主动加班钻研、提出优化方案,总被同事嘲笑“爱表现”“拍马屁”;学术圈里,认真做研究的人,被同行讥“死读书”“不通世务”;就连街头健身、晨跑的人,也会有人挤兑:“这年头还折腾啥”。 一个社会最容易发生的,就是让所有人一起缓慢沉沦,然后将反抗者定性为“异端”。凡是敢于改善的人,便被斥为不安分,凡是渴望改变的人,便成了无事生非。 甚至,贫穷者也嘲笑富裕。 不是因为贫穷多么可敬,而是因为他们不愿承认自己命运里那部分由自身选择决定。于是,凡是富裕者,便被冠以“不义”“走捷径”“靠关系”的标签。“有钱的都没好人”“他那钱怎么来的你不知道?”仿佛一句偏见就能抵消自己所有不作为。 贫穷便成为一种“清高”的勋章,而富裕则沦为一种“可疑”的罪证。 于是,这方世界,昼夜涨落着这种名为“嘲笑”的潮信。它悄无声息地围困每一个灵魂,将人们的棱角磨平,将异类与独行者赶出人群,将光明者逐入黑暗,将敢于反问的人钉上耻辱柱。 而那真正值得警惕的,从来不是嘲笑本身,而是嘲笑背后所藏的那股恐惧——对未知的恐惧,对改变的恐惧,对失去自我幻觉的恐惧。 在这片潮信里,若你想守住自己的火光,便要学会与风浪共眠,与孤独相伴,与讥讽同行。 因为世上的真正强者,从不在乎浪花,而只看向彼岸。

Greta Thunberg: the girl and our future

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Yicheng · Jun 11, 2025

We often hear the phrase, “Kids are our future.” It is something parents, educators, and leaders around the world like to say. But in a time marked by emotional extremes, misinformation, polarized opinions, and rising violence, this comforting slogan is no longer enough. We need to take a step back and ask, calmly and seriously: […]

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