Shaping Children’s Mindset: The Power of Love and Experiences

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Daohe · Oct 23, 2024
A child’s growth is not merely about physical development. It’s more about the extension and growth of their thinking and perception. When it comes to education, we often focus on accumulating knowledge and help children develop concrete and abstract thinking skills to better study knowledge. However, gaining knowledge is not the whole picture of cognitive […]

A child’s growth is not merely about physical development. It’s more about the extension and growth of their thinking and perception. When it comes to education, we often focus on accumulating knowledge and help children develop concrete and abstract thinking skills to better study knowledge. However, gaining knowledge is not the whole picture of cognitive development. It is more important to broaden their horizon and improve their mindset by having them delve into cultural and civilizational contexts.

If children grow up to lack love and curiosity toward the world, they tend to believe that grasping knowledge is everything that makes them stand out, and so their thinking is getting rigid. Without love and curiosity for others and the world, their mindset is limited, and their understanding of the world will remain very superficial and unable to extend. Eventually, the limited mindset prevents them from appreciating the diversity and intricacies of life.

However, love and curiosity is not inherent. These qualities need to be guided by external experiences. In order for kids to ignite their aspirations and foster reflections, it is important that they have witnessed the truly greatness and kindness. Just like a small river can only understand its own depth by seeing the ocean, children need the power of role models and real experiences to see a greater world and open their minds. In this way, their heart will be filled with aspirations for the future and they will gain deeper insights into life.

If children lack such insights of love and curiosity yet excel in knowledge, they are likely to develop an arrogant and narrow mindset. Although these children may possess a wealth of knowledge, it is hard for them to think outside the box. It also prevents them from transforming their achievements into help for others and contributions to society. In the end, they may have many skills but lack the ideals to advance societal progress.

What’s worse, narrow-minded individuals often lack the love and empathy for others and genuine care for the world. It becomes hard for them to envision a broader future, as they usually don’t have the dream of making the world a better place. This limitation not only stunts their personal growth but also robs them of the motivation to continue evolving.

Therefore, when educating children, we must emphasize not just knowledge but also the cultivation of love and curiosity. By exposing them to greatness, children can expand their horizons and better understand the world’s depth and breadth. Role models can inspire them to pursue higher ideals and a meaningful life. When children cultivate such vision and openness, their thinking will continue to grow, ultimately becoming a force for positive change in society.

In conclusion, shaping children’s thinking transcends knowledge education; it involves nurturing their perspectives and empathy through cultural and civilizational insights. Only then can they aspire to reach greater heights and explore wider horizons in the future.

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活出上帝的教義:尋找靈魂的富足

Yicheng · Nov 11, 2024

本文節選於一次志願者談話,做了一定的修改。 講述者是道何。 今天我們對“尋找靈魂的富足”做一探討。 感謝大家的參與和旁聽。 上帝永遠祝福於我們,願我們與上帝同在。 在《馬太福音》中,耶穌在曠野中度過四十天時,魔鬼試圖引誘祂將石頭變成食物,耶穌卻說了這樣的話:“人活著,不是單靠食物,乃是靠上帝口裡所出的每一句話。 “(馬太福音4:4)。 這句話啟發我們去探索真正支撐我們的力量,並指引我們超越物質需求,探索精神上的富足。 在現代社會中,物質慾望越來越容易滿足,人們卻越來越與精神世界脫節。 我們所有人都在追逐更有錢、更豪華的車、更大的房子、更高的分數、升職等等。 當然,這些追求都是正當的,是為了更幸福的生活和社會進步,但真正指引人生方向、維繫人類社會的,實際上是無形的精神力量。 人類的行為總是由潛在的動機所驅動,而這些動機往往源於我們的價值觀。 如果這些動機主要出於自私的慾望,那麼我們就會創造一個每個人只關心自身利益的世界。 而如果這些動機源自上帝的智慧,我們則更有可能在地球上建立一個天堂,或者說上帝的國度。 真正活出上帝的教義,我們就會發現時刻反思自己的行為和選擇。 通過反思,我們能夠修正錯誤,重新指引人生的方向。 即使面對生活中的挑戰和不公,我們也會選擇走正道,而不是隨波逐流。 由此我們能夠認識到人性的弱點,以及靈魂成長的必要性。 活出上帝的教義意味著不再只是被動接受外來環境與文化的影響,而是以道德與正確的價值觀引導自己,積極行動起來去改變外在的環境,這才符合上帝的意志。 上帝的意志就是讓人間變成一個更好的地方,讓社會有一個更加美好的未來。 活出上帝的教義意味著愛自己,還要把你的愛擴及他人與世界。 由這份真摯的愛,我們的能力會得到充分的釋放,做各種各樣能夠利益他人與社會的事情。 這些行動讓你發現自己內在的真愛,發現靈魂深處無盡的力量。 如此生活,我們不止是在活著,而是活出了生命的意義和價值。 遵循上帝的話語,我們能夠激發內在的靈性潛能,成為更好的自己,服務世界,而這正是人生最可貴的一部分。 活出上帝的教義並不意味著犧牲自己成就別人,而是以上帝的智慧引導我們的生活,激勵我們去創造更多利益和財富,這些反過來也將惠及我們自身。 我們可以從以下幾點開始: 我們常常用物質去填補內心的空虛,但耶穌在曠野中面對誘惑時給了我們另一種答案:一種紮根於信仰、活出教義的生活。 讓祂的教義指引我們走上正道,我們才能獲得內心的滋養,走向真正的滿足與幸福。

Living by the Word: Finding True Spiritual Fulfillment

Yicheng · Nov 11, 2024

This is an excerpt of a speech originally in Chinese given to Yicheng volunteers. It is slightly edited and revised. The speaker is Daohe. Today we will explore the topic “seeking fulfillment of the soul”. Thank you for your attendance. God bless us. May God be with us. In the Gospel of Matthew, during Jesus’s […]

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