3 Dreams to a Better World

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Daohe · Jan 13, 2025
Everyone has their own unique dream for a better world. My dream, however, is to make more people happy. This is not only my pursuit but also my belief — that happiness can be the ultimate destination for everyone, and that human kindness, the connections between people, and collective action can change the temperature of […]

Everyone has their own unique dream for a better world. My dream, however, is to make more people happy. This is not only my pursuit but also my belief — that happiness can be the ultimate destination for everyone, and that human kindness, the connections between people, and collective action can change the temperature of this world. This is why I confounded Yicheng Commonweal, and through this journey, I have come to realize that the essence of charity is not only in giving but also in co-building the bridges and bonds of happiness.

For a better world, happiness lies in dreams, hopes, and connections

When I was a child, I believed that happiness was a deeply personal feeling—something shaped by small hopes and dreams, like having a fulfilling job, a loving home, or the chance to travel the world. But over time, I came to realize that what seems like simple desires to some are distant and unreachable dreams for many others across the world. In fact, in faraway places, there are countless others living in extreme hardship and turmoil.

I used to feel powerless, lost, and overwhelmed by this realization. But as I began my work in Yicheng Commonweal, I realized that happiness is not just a personal feeling—but a hope, a force that can grow and spread. It is not merely an individual experience, but a connection between people. It’s one dream inspiring another, and many hands working together to create something far bigger than any one person could achieve alone.

It is this very faith that led me to establish Yicheng Commonweal. Our dream is for everyone to attain well-being and happiness, even though many dismiss it as unrealistic and scoff at the idea. Indeed, the bigger the dream, the greater the support and resources required. But history will bear witness that the shared human desire for happiness will overcome all obstacles and turn this vision into a reality.

Whether it’s the expansion of education, the improvement of living standards, or the nurturing of the spirit, happiness is not as distant as it may seem. As long as there are people committed to making it happen, it can spread like a gentle spring breeze into every corner. Yicheng Commonweal is not just a NGO with a mission, but represents a collective pursuit of happiness for a better world. This belief reinforces my conviction that building such an organization is not only the right choice, but also the most effective way to make dreams come true.

My dream: making happiness accessible to everyone for a better world

Even though Yicheng Commonweal is still in its early stages, I have already come to realize that happiness isn’t some abstract idea—it is something that can be shaped and shared.

I once had a conversation with a 16-year-old volunteer who shared her dream with me. She was working hard to learn a foreign language with the goal of studying abroad, and she had been tirelessly working to save money so she could eventually create a language learning center in her hometown. Although she was already on the path to making her dream a reality, she often found herself overwhelmed with self-doubt and anxiety about whether her dreams would ever come true.

I told her earnestly that her future held limitless potential, and that all she needed to do was keep trying. I also introduced her to some resources that could help her overcome the challenges she was facing at that moment. She was deeply moved and said that, aside from her parents, no one had ever encouraged or supported her like that. She couldn’t believe that there were such kind people in the world.

She said that she hoped to become someone like me someday and help more people in the future and make a better world.

At that moment, I was taken aback, because I suddenly realized that the possibility of happiness doesn’t lie in making a big change or having vast material resources and power. It lies in taking real action to make someone feel that they are not alone—that there are people who care about their existence and genuinely love them. At the same time, I made a quiet vow to transform this love into the power of public welfare, to help more people and give everyone the chance to realize their dreams and find happiness for a better world.

This experience also taught me an important lesson: charity is not just about one-way giving. It is about the connection of souls between people. Many people hesitate to care for others and the world, not because they lack the ability, but because they don’t believe that such a great love exists in the world. Once they have a personal experience and encounter it for themselves, they are impressed, and they become more willing to embrace the world and release their own love and kindness.

Therefore, each action is a crucial step toward happiness. With each attempt and effort, we unlock more possibilities for happiness and gather the strength of more people to make it a reality. When we light up someone else’s hope, we also gain a clearer understanding of the true meaning of happiness.

A dream is a commitment to make our planet a better world to coexist

The experiences in Yicheng Commonweal has taught me that happiness is not something to wait for, but something that must be created together. This creation is not about one-sided giving, but about transforming goodwill into a lasting force, making each person a builder of happiness.

The philosophy of Yicheng Commonweal embodies this very idea. Through the promotion of education, the inheritance of culture, and the guidance of faith, we are not just helping others solve immediate problems. We are building a bridge for them to reach happiness to create a better world. This approach of “teaching people to fish” has shown me that true philanthropy is not about one-time charity, but about planting the seeds of happiness deeply in every person’s heart, enabling them to sow and harvest for themselves.

For me, this is also a promise—a promise to dedicate my time and actions to protect the possibility of happiness for a better world, a promise to ensure that every act of kindness gathers into a force capable of changing destinies, and a promise that, come what may, I will persist on this path, never turning back.

The end of my dream: a world of collective happiness creates a better world

I really love the image of “flying.”

Humanity’s obsession with flying gave birth to the invention of airplanes. Without the yearning for the skies or the dream of soaring through the heavens, none of this would have been possible.

The journey to realizing a dream is much like flying.

The journey toward fulfilling dreams is never without its challenges. In my pursuit of welfare ideal, there were moments when I felt exhausted and powerless, times when I doubted whether my efforts would truly bring about change.

But each time, it is these experiences that reaffirm my belief: the true destination of flight is never personal glory, but a better world of happiness meant for all of humanity.

What Yicheng Commonweal does is not just helping individuals solve their immediate problems. It is about building a society with greater well-being. Through education, we change the future of a child; through economics, we help people grow in material wealth; through care, we bring warmth to lonely souls; and through collective effort, we ensure that everyone can feel the dignity and meaning of life.

This is not only my dream, but also the shared pursuit of every person involved in philanthropy.

Conclusion

I always fly with my dream. The significance of this dream goes far beyond personal ambition. It is a belief rooted in the world and in the happiness of every life. Through Yicheng Commonweal, I have discovered the way to turn this dream into reality, and I have come to understand the true purpose of philanthropy. It is not about being a “giver,” but about being a co-builder and co-creator of happiness for a better world.

No matter how many challenges lie ahead, I will continue to soar with this dream. Because I know that this is not only my personal mission to make a better world, but also a commitment to the world and to everyone who walks this path with me. Happiness is our shared destination, and flying is the way we reach it.

Let’s gather in action, my friends. I am Daohe, the cofounder of Yicheng Commonweal!

 

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缺乏博爱与善意的社会人际:让我们逐渐掉入自闭的魔窟

Yicheng · Nov 26, 2024

在这个瞬息万变的时代,科技高速发展带来的信息爆炸让人们的视野更宽广,却也让人们看到了太多赤裸裸的不公不义之事,而筑起了防备的心墙,彼此的心灵距离愈加遥远。社会中缺乏博爱与善意的人际交往,正像一面冷漠的高墙,阻隔了彼此的温度,让我们不知不觉中掉入了自闭的魔窟。而要改变这一现状,需要我们每个人重新认识博爱与善意的价值,并身体力行,将关怀的火种重新点燃。 一、冷漠与疏离:当社会丧失温度 现代生活节奏的加快,让人们为了生存和发展疲于奔命,逐渐丧失了对他人关怀的能力和意愿,冷漠和疏离成为普遍现象。 在地铁里、在街头、在办公室,人们低头刷着手机,与身边的人似乎不存在任何关联。甚至在家庭中,成员之间也变得沉默无言,各自沉浸在屏幕中。人们害怕给别人添麻烦, 害怕三观不合的冲击,于是愈发缺乏交流,社会中缺乏共享,缺乏融合。缺乏内心的同温共感,人与人之间的交往越来越丧失温度。 公共场合中,对他人困境冷眼旁观的路人、在网络空间里泛滥的自保言论、教导他人专注自身利益的劝诫,都让人感受到一种冷酷严苛的社会风气。当人们将关心他人视为一种“风险”,将最大化自身利益视为理所当然,社会融合的温度就会逐渐消失,甚至冰冷到极处。狂躁,厌恶、反抗、害怕,哭泣与此共生。   长期生活在冷漠的环境中,个体更容易陷入孤独和无助之中。心理学研究表明,缺乏人与人之间的真实互动,会导致抑郁、焦虑等心理疾病的高发。更严重的是,这种疏离会形成恶性循环,进一步削弱社会凝聚力。发生社会突发现象。 未经他人苦,不知他人罪,何以感受他人? 二、自闭的魔窟:社会关系中的恶性循环 当博爱与善意从社会中逐渐消退与退却,每个人都可能被推向孤独的深渊,冷漠的泥沼。在这种环境中,人们的自我保护意识被强化或者是相反极端弱化,将我们故意或者有意牢牢地锁定在囚笼之中自我封闭,犹如笼中的雄狮,嘶吼、咆哮、呼喊;又犹如一条冰冻的鱼,难以呼吸或者窒息。 缺乏善意的社会容易让人陷入一种对外界的不信任中。担心被拒绝、害怕受伤、害怕付出得不到回报,这些心理让个体选择封闭自我,远离他人。久而久之,人与人之间的联系变得浅薄甚至消失,每个人都成了一座孤岛。 当善意不被理解甚至被误解时,更多的人会选择冷漠以示“自保”。这种行为导致社会信任感下降,形成一种“多管闲事会招惹麻烦”的集体心理。于是,大家对他人漠不关心,对公共事务冷眼旁观,整个社会陷入恶性循环。 自闭的魔窟不仅影响个体,还会对整个社会造成深远影响,造成社会性情感枯竭。没有情感的流动,社会就像一条干涸的河流,失去了生命的活力。无论是家庭、社区还是工作环境,人与人之间的关系都变得机械而冷淡,社会凝聚力和创造力被极大削弱。 三、博爱与善意:重新点燃社会温度的钥匙 要从冷漠与自闭中解脱,我们必须意识到博爱与善意的力量。博爱是一种无私的情怀,它超越了个人利益和社会分歧,让我们能够关心每一个生命;善意则是日常生活中的实际行动,能够为社会注入温暖与信任。博爱与善意能够超越人与人之间的一切隔阂与怀疑,当一个人用博爱的胸怀与善意的行动去对待他人,其他人也会在这个过程中受到感染,将爱与温暖传递下去。 共情共勉互相激励是善意的基础。试着站在他人的立场思考,体会他们的处境和感受。比如,当看到有人需要帮助时,与其质疑或观望,不如试着伸出援手;当遇到与自己观点不同的人时,不妨先倾听,尝试理解对方的出发点。共情能够打破人与人之间的隔阂,重建信任的桥梁。 善意并不需要惊天动地的举动,它存在于日常生活的点滴中。一个关怀的问候、一句真诚的感谢、一次及时的帮助,甚至一个温暖的微笑,都可以成为传递善意的起点。这些简单的举动,能够为身边的人带来意想不到的温暖。 博爱不仅是一种个人的选择,更是一种社会的文化氛围。通过公益活动、社区帮助服务、教育传播正确给予等方式,让更多人认识到博爱的价值,并主动参与其中。当博爱成为一种社会风气,冷漠的高墙就会逐渐瓦解,人心的冰霜才能慢慢融化,人际关系才能让人如沐春风。 四、从冷漠到温暖:我们可以做得更多 每个人都可以为这个世界注入更多的博爱与善意,从而改变社会的现状。    •  在家庭中:多关注家人内心的需求,用陪伴与沟通增进彼此的感情。    •  在社区中:参与邻里活动,关心弱势群体,为营造和谐的社区环境贡献一份力量。    •  在社会中:主动参与公益事业,为需要帮助的人提供支持,将个人的爱延伸到更广的范围。 五、结语:博爱与善意是人性的复苏 博爱和善意是人性最本真的光辉,是社会复苏的希望所在。当我们选择付出博爱,奉献善意,我们不仅是在帮助他人,也是在为自己赢得一片更温暖的天地。让我们每个人都行动起来,从点滴做起,把冷漠的高墙化为温情的桥梁,将自闭的魔窟变成博爱的乐园。唯有如此,我们才能共同构建一个充满温度与信任的社会,为自己,也为下一代,创造一个更加美好的未来。

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