A Civilized Society Needs Compassionate Goodness that Avoids Division

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Kishou · 11월 25, 2024
Yicheng Commonweal’s Exploration of Good and Evil In the pursuit of civilization, goodness has always been a key to harmony and progress. However, good will can sometimes lead to conflict and division. This happens when its purpose is distorted, causing more harm instead of healing. A civilized society needs a goodness that transcends opposition and […]

Yicheng Commonweal’s Exploration of Good and Evil

In the pursuit of civilization, goodness has always been a key to harmony and progress. However, good will can sometimes lead to conflict and division. This happens when its purpose is distorted, causing more harm instead of healing.

A civilized society needs a goodness that transcends opposition and connects hearts. It does not aim to judge or seek to prove its own righteousness. Instead, it attempts to resolve conflicts with compassion, guide with care, and build connections through inclusive conversations. Practicing such goodness helps avoid clashes and harm. It creates mutual respect and dialogue, paving the way for a better society.

I. When Good will becomes a source of division

Articulating for justice and the vulnerable is both a civic duty and a reflection of human kindness. Yet, while many acts are carried out in the name of kindness, they are not rooted in universal love but in opposing ideological camps. Such actions often result in group bullying, intensified conflict, and societal division.

This kind of “goodness” relies on a black-and-white mindset, dividing people into camps of right and wrong. It oversimplifies the complexity of human nature and the struggles of social life. By reducing problems to a battle of “us vs. them,” it assumes that attacking the “wrong” side will solve the issue. In reality, it only deepens divisions and worsens conflicts.

For example, in environmental protection, some people see unsustainable practices as “evil.” They criticize those who fail to adopt eco-friendly habits from a moral high ground. This may seem like genuine concern for the environment. However, it often excludes those who need guidance and education. Instead of encouraging change, it makes them more resistant to growth.

When goodness becomes a fight against evil, it easily leads to extremism. These expressions often come at the expense of hurting others. It can create new injustices and even worse consequences. For example, some groups use the banner of “social justice” to justify online bullying. They try to “eliminate” those they see as unjust.

Such divisive goodness destroys social trust. In a society filled with conflicts, people will inevitably become afraid to express their true opinions. They stop believing in the genuine intention of others. Over time, the distance between individuals grows. This leads to a society marked by indifference and self-protection.

II. Goodness rooted in love for all: overcoming the struggle between good and evil

The world needs a form of kindness free from confrontation. It is founded on equal love, driven by understanding, tolerance, and empathy. True goodness recognizes the struggle and pain of all sides. Thus it aims to bridge the divide, foster rational dialogue and formulate solutions to address the issues.

Such goodness does not focus on distinguishing between right and wrong. Instead, it addresses shared human needs and vulnerabilities. It acknowledges individual limitations and approaches mistakes with care and patience. By guiding those in false beliefs toward self-reflection and growth, it becomes a catalyst for positive change.

Even though some may not accept the right views and practices in the short term, the power of civilization will subtly and quietly transform everything. Over time, malice and ignorance will be ashamed of themselves and find less and less room to take root.

This principle is well-demonstrated in family education. When a child makes a mistake, parents may choose to harshly criticize them. Yet, a compassionate approach often proves more effective. By understanding a child’s limitations and emotional needs, parents can guide with care and reason. This helps children learn from their lessons. Punishment alone can lead to defiance and may undermine the purpose of education. It could create opposition between parent and child.

The same idea holds true for tackling social problems arising from unfairness rooted in the system. Ruth Bader Ginsburg, the former justice of the American Supreme Court, provides a striking example. In her long journey of fighting for gender equality, rather than outright condemning the system for its gender-based discrimination, she took a sustainable and strategic approach. While advocating for women’s rights, she also defended cases where men were discriminated against to highlight the broader issue of systemic inequality. By using empathy and logic, she bridged the gap and fostered understanding, achieving real progress in gender equality. Her wisdom and approach has won her great respect from all sides of the society.

Goodness rooted in love for all avoids dividing people into camps of right and wrong or judging others from a moral high ground. It focuses on building cooperation and finding common ground, not fueling conflict or competition. Much like our collective efforts in public welfare, it combines kindness with responsibility. As Gandhi said, “We can win hearts through love and understanding, not hatred.”

A good example is also seen in social welfare programs. While some blame poverty on individual failings, others with an empathetic perspective are able to dig deeper and identify systemic issues. It advocates for education and support to help the disadvantaged overcome their struggles. This approach not only uplifts individuals but also strengthens the unity and resilience of society as a whole.

III. Rejecting contentious good will: a necessary choice for civilized societies

Civilized societies need a higher level of kindness, one that transcends the moral disputes of good and evil. Avoiding unnecessary conflicts is not only a sign of wisdom but also a step toward progress.

Disputes over good and evil often waste resources and overshadow real issues. People focus on assigning blame rather than finding practical solutions. With a universal love, people are able to focus on the core problems through rational discussions and emphasizes effective solutions.

The progress of civilization lies in respecting differences and embracing diversity. Compassionate goodness, rooted in tolerance, helps find common ground amid disagreements. It encourages people to work together on the problem, instead of fostering divisions or emotional wounds. It helps reduce internal conflicts and promotes unity.

IV. Only with a love for all can we truly distinguish good from evil

Some may ask, “Does this mean no one should be held accountable for their actions? What about those who commit crimes against humanity?” Compassionate love does not blur the lines between good and evil. In fact, it is through this deeper love that we gain the clarity to truly understand them.

When universal love becomes the standard, we see that not all goodness is equal. Some forms of goodness are narrow and conditional, quickly turning into selfishness or indifference when circumstances change. Other forms of goodness might be insincere, driven by the need to fit a certain image rather than by genuine care.

Evil, too, is not always what it seems. Sometimes it stems from ignorance or a limited worldview, a temporary state rather than a permanent trait. Some evils are born out of conformity, a lack of love, and the inability to think independently. But there are also true evils—actions and systems that inflict great harm and must be confronted.

For those who cause profound and long-lasting harm, like oppressive regimes, we must have the courage to take a stand and fight with them. Compassionate love doesn’t mean avoiding conflict or accountability. Instead, it offers a higher purpose—a call to act with wisdom and empathy. At its core, this love is boundless and universal, far greater than the narrow concept of goodness. It is this love that inspires and guides us toward justice and healing.

V. The practice of compassionate goodness: a reform of individuals and society

To embed compassionate goodness into the fabric of a civilized society, it is necessary to address both personal growth and collective action.

On an individual level, everyone can practice compassionate goodness by enhancing self-awareness and empathy. In moments of conflict, we can strive to understand the other side and use kindness to defuse tensions.

On the other hand, choosing dialogue over criticism and compromise over confrontation should become the foundation of our shared social norms. This creates warmer, more respectful relationships and a more inclusive community.

Institutions should promote the idea of compassionate goodness through education, policies, and cultural influence. Schools can incorporate lessons on empathy, tolerance, and the value of diversity. Media should shift focus from sensationalizing divisions to showcasing inspiring stories of unity and cooperation. These systemic efforts help foster a culture where inclusive kindness is celebrated and practiced widely.

Practical actions can further amplify this message. Community events to support vulnerable groups, for example, or sharing real-life stories of kindness on social platforms can inspire others to join in. Through these small but meaningful efforts, the power of genuine love can spread, touching more lives and gradually transforming society as a whole.

VI. Conclusion: goodness rooted in universal love as the foundation of civilization

A civilized society thrives on compassionate goodness, a wisdom and strength that transcends the conflicts of good and evil. This force soothes wounds with warmth, bridges divides with tolerance, and infuses society with endless harmony and hope.

Rejecting divisive actions in the name of goodness paves the way for greater unity and progress. It starts with each of us—practicing compassion and care in our daily lives to bring warmth and possibility to the world around us. Only by doing so can the seeds of civilization truly take root, flourish, and bear fruit.

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歴史の発展における価値観――「塵芥のような人生」を乗り越えるために

歴史の発展における価値観――「塵芥のような人生」を乗り越えるために

Daohe · 9월 12, 2025

人生の意義と価値を問い直す 歴史とは、個人の意志とは無関係に、滔々と流れる大河です。その流れの中で、誰もが時代の巨大な歯車に轢かれながら生きています。ある者は自らを燃やし、文明を前進させるエンジンの燃料となります。一方である者は、責任を逃れて片隅で縮こまり、やがて時代に見捨てられ、腐敗し、塵芥となります。前者は後世に「力」を残しますが、後者は何一つ価値あるものを残しません。 ここで言う「塵芥」とは、文明が前進する過程で振り落とされ、もはや何の価値もエネルギーも持たなくなった存在を指します。これを人の一生に当てはめてみましょう。いかに自らを高潔で善良な人間だと思っていても、時代の前進に何一つ貢献しなければ、歴史という巨大なエンジンにエネルギーとして取り込まれ、そして不要物として捨てられる運命にあるのです。 一、動力の価値:文明における唯一の尺度 個人の価値を測る上で、道徳、善悪、名声といったものは、しばしば幻影に過ぎません。歴史が真に認める基準は、ただ一つ。「動力」を提供したかどうか、という点です。 「動力」とは、抽象的な概念ではありません。具体的には、以下のような形で現れます。 動力とは文明の燃料です。たとえ小さな火花であっても、時代のエンジンに投じられれば、未来を照らすことができます。逆に、動力を生まない人間は、中立的な存在ではなく、文明にとって重い足枷となります。 二、塵芥の末路:無為な者の行き着く先 現代には、「悪事を働かなければ善人だ」と考える、善良な人間を自認する人々が溢れています。しかし、歴史は人を「善悪」で評価しません。「貢献」という基準でその価値を測ります。社会に置き換えれば、それは時代の恩恵を消費するだけで、一切の還元をしない人々のことです。 歴史は、「善人」だからといって名を刻むことはなく、「悪人ではない」からといってその無価値を許すこともありません。善悪を問わず、時代に動力を提供しない者は、最終的に社会という機械から排出される不要物となり、淘汰され、忘れ去られ、歴史から顧みられなくなるのです。 三、善悪を超えて:価値の真の判断基準 我々は人を「善人」と「悪人」に分けたがりますが、歴史の視点は異なります。 ある種の「悪人」は、結果として制度の改革を促し、間接的に動力となることがあります。ナポレオンは戦争屋でしたが、近代法治の礎となる「フランス民法典」をもたらしました。 ある種の「善人」は、行動を欠いたがゆえに、歴史に埋もれていきます。第二次世界大戦中、ヨーロッパの数百万の傍観者たちは、ユダヤ人が虐殺されるのを見て見ぬふりをしました。彼らは個人としては「善良」だったかもしれませんが、歴史が記憶しているのは抵抗者と解放者だけです。 文明を前進させる「動力」こそが真の基準であり、善悪ではありません。歴史が求めるのは「道徳的なレッテル」ではなく、「動力のもたらす効果」です。時代を前進させる者は記憶され、ただ食糧と空気を消費するだけの者は、文明の代謝と共に塵芥として洗い流されます。 四、歴史の鉄則:塵芥は常に洗い流される 古今東西の歴史を見渡せば、塵芥のような人生の末路は明らかです。 文明が記憶するのは、それを動かした者だけであり、何もしなかった傍観者を記憶することはないのです。 五、現代への警告:「塵芥のような人生」の蔓延 一見繁栄しているかのような現代社会は、「塵芥のような人生」で満ち溢れています。 彼らは自己満足に浸り、自らを「善人」とさえ思っているかもしれません。しかし文明の視点から見れば、彼らは時代のエンジンとは何の関係もなく、未来によって洗い流される運命にあります。 六、「塵芥のような人生」を避けるための道筋 中国・前漢の時代、司馬遷は『報任安書』でこう述べました。「人固より一死有り、或いは泰山より重く、或いは鴻毛より軽し(人は誰でもいつか死ぬ。その死は、ある場合は泰山よりも重く、ある場合は鳥の羽よりも軽い)」。その価値は、追求する目標と意義によって決まるのです。 塵芥の人生を避ける方法は、決して難解ではありません。 たとえ貢献が微々たるものであっても、それが時代のエンジンの一部となるならば、その人生には意味が生まれます。貢献を拒否する者だけが、ただ流されていく「塵芥」となり、何の価値も残せず、誰からも記憶されないという末路を辿るのです。 結語 生命の意義は、善良であったかどうか、潔白であったかどうかにはありません。この時代に、ほんのわずかでもエネルギーを注いだかどうかにあるのです。動力には大小の差はあれど、誰もがそれを生み出すことができます。そして、その微小な貢献の総和こそが、文明を前進させる真の力なのです。 燃料としての生は、燃え尽きようとも栄光に満ちています。 塵芥としての生は、いかに潔白を装おうとも空しいものです。 動力となることでのみ、生命は文明に吸収されます。さもなければ、歴史が排出した塵芥に過ぎない存在となり、誰の記憶にも残らないのです。

人类历史社会发展价值观下的“粪便人生”

人类历史社会发展价值观下的“粪便人生”

Daohe · 9월 12, 2025

叙谈人生的意义与价值–看清粪便人生 历史是一条奔涌的长河,浩浩荡荡,不以个人意志为转移。在这个历史长河中,每一个人都身处于时代巨轮的碾压之下。有人燃烧自己,成为引擎的燃料,推动文明向前;有人则蜷缩在角落,不愿承担任何责任,最终被抛弃、被腐化,成为这个时代的粪便。前者留下力量,后者只剩恶臭。粪便,本是身体代谢的废物,不再具有营养和能量,只能被排出体外。若套用到人的一生,不论其自认为多么清高、多么善良,若未曾为时代的前行贡献力量,便注定被历史的胃肠道消化后丢弃。 一、动力的价值:文明的唯一尺度 在个人价值与社会价值的衡量中,道德、善恶、名誉,往往只是幻影。真正被历史认可的标准,只有一个:你是否提供了动力。动力不是抽象的,它体现在:  科技的探索者,让世界的认知边界不断拓展;科技动力:牛顿、爱因斯坦改变人类认知;硅谷创业者推动世界进入数字时代。 制度的建设者,让社会秩序更加稳固和公平;制度动力:美国宪法、法国人权宣言、北欧福利制度,让公民的权利被制度化。 文化的创造者,让人类的精神生活不断丰盈;文化动力:莎士比亚、陀思妥耶夫斯基、鲁迅,用文字刺破人心,点燃新的思想火种。 公益的践行者,让弱者也能在光中行走。公益动力:白求恩、特蕾莎修女、无数志愿者,在苦难之地让文明的光照亮弱者。 社会组织事业的践行者,让人都在组织中成长。社会动力:只有社会组织才是我们最小的社会单位,任何人在组织中才能发出最灿烂的创造之光。 动力是文明的燃料。哪怕只是一点火星,投入时代引擎,也能点亮无数未来。而没有动力的人,不是中立者,而是沉重的负担。 二、粪便的命运:无所作为者的归宿 在这个时代,许多人自以为善良,认为“不作恶就是好人”。然而,历史的标准从不以“善恶”来衡量一个人,而是以“贡献”来审视其价值。对应到人类社会,就是那些只消耗时代供养,却从不回馈时代的人。 无所作为的好人:他们自诩清白,不作恶,但也从不创造。他们的存在就像空气中的浮尘,随风消散,毫无痕迹。 自我沉溺的坏人:他们或许搅起浪花,但并未推动历史,只是被历史冲刷后腐烂。 冷漠的旁观者:他们不愿承受任何责任,以“中立”为借口,其实等同于自动退出文明进程。 历史不会因为你是“好人”就留名,也不会因为你“不坏”就赦免。论善恶,只要不提供时代动力,最终都将成为社会机器的排泄物,被淘汰,被遗忘,被历史嫌弃。 三、善恶之外:价值的真正判断 我们习惯把人分成“好人”和“坏人”,但历史的眼睛并不这样看。 一些所谓“坏人”,因推动了制度反思,反而间接成为动力。拿破仑虽是战争贩子,却带来《民法典》,成为现代法治的基石。 一些“好人”,因缺乏行动,反而湮没无闻。二战时期,欧洲数百万旁观者看着犹太人被屠杀,却无人伸手相助。他们或许“善良”,但历史只记住了抵抗者与解放者。 动力推动才文明的真正标准,而非善恶。历史要的,不是“道德标签”,而是“动力效应”。谁能让时代进步,谁就被铭记;谁若只消耗空气与粮食,就会化作粪便,随文明代谢被冲走。 四、历史的铁律:粪便总被冲走 纵观古今中外,粪便人生的命运早已昭示: 秦末农民:多数人选择苟且偷生,最终与暴政一同被湮没,唯有陈胜、吴广敢举义,才进入史册。 工业革命时期:成千上万工人机械般消耗生命,却毫无主体性,被机器和资本吞噬。最终,他们成了“被时代代谢”的一代,而提出工人权利的推动者,才被铭记。 二十世纪的冷漠者:无数国家里,那些既不反抗压迫,也不建设社会的人,活着如草芥,死后无一人记起。 文明只记住推动者,而不会记住无所作为的旁观者。   五、当代的警告:粪便人生正在泛滥 今天的世界,看似繁荣,却充斥着“粪便人生”: 把一生浪费在短视频麻醉与无意义消费上的人; 只顾个人安逸,却对公共事务冷漠的人; 只追求“清白”或“小确幸”,却拒绝承担责任的人。 他们或许自我感觉良好,甚至自诩为“好人”。但在文明视角下,他们与时代的引擎毫无关系,注定被未来冲走。 六、避免粪便人生的路径 东方中国两汉时期,司马迁在《报任安书》言:人固有一死,或重于泰山,或轻于鸿毛,用之所期、趋利异也。也给出了人生的价值取决于所追求的目标与意义,实际方法并不玄妙:1. 贡献哪怕一点点:在你的岗位上留下改进的痕迹,就是动力。2. 参与公共事务:哪怕只是为一次社区决策投票,也比冷漠旁观要强。3. 学习与创造:学习是吸收动力,创造是释放动力,两者缺一不可。4. 推动哪怕微小的文明进步:帮人守住诚信、传播知识、支持公益,支持社会组织事业都是点亮未来的火种。 哪怕贡献渺小,只要进入时代引擎,你的人生就有意义。唯有拒绝贡献的人,才会落得“粪便”的命运,被冲入下水道,臭气熏天,却无人愿再提起。 结语: 生命的意义,不在于你是否善良,不在于你是否清白,而在于你是否曾经给这个时代注入过哪怕一丝能量。动力有层级,但没有人被禁止提供。微小贡献的总和,正是文明前行的真正力量。 燃料之生,虽耗尽也光荣;粪便之生,虽自洁也卑贱。唯有成为动力,生命才能被文明吸收;否则,你只是历史的排泄物,臭气熏天,却无人再记起。

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