What is emptiness? A dialogue between Kongzhi and Bodhidharma

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Master Wonder · Feb 12, 2025
In The Legend of Bodhidharma, there is a profound and thought-provoking exchange. One day, a monk named Kongzhi arrived at Shaolin Temple. With great reverence, he bowed before Bodhidharma and inquired about the concept of emptiness in Buddhist teachings. With hands clasped, he asked: “Master, you are Bodhidharma, are you not? I am Kongzhi, and […]

In The Legend of Bodhidharma, there is a profound and thought-provoking exchange.

One day, a monk named Kongzhi arrived at Shaolin Temple. With great reverence, he bowed before Bodhidharma and inquired about the concept of emptiness in Buddhist teachings. With hands clasped, he asked:

“Master, you are Bodhidharma, are you not? I am Kongzhi, and my understanding of Buddhism is still shallow. I seek your guidance. The mind, the Buddha, and all beings—these three are empty. The attachment to phenomena is also empty. There is neither saint nor ordinary being, neither giving nor receiving, neither good nor evil—everything is empty. Is this understanding correct?”

Bodhidharma gazed at him silently. Suddenly, he reached out and struck Kongzhi’s head with a firm knock. Kongzhi winced in pain and immediately furrowed his brows, exclaiming, “Master, why did you hit me?”

Bodhidharma smiled faintly and replied calmly, “Since you claim that everything is empty, where does this pain come from?”

Kongzhi was stunned and fell into deep contemplation. After a moment, he murmured, “If everything is truly empty, why do I still feel pain? If even suffering cannot be transcended, then what is the meaning of ’emptiness’?”

Bodhidharma spoke slowly, “See what cannot be seen, hear what cannot be heard, know what cannot be known—that is the truth.”

A realization dawned upon Kongzhi. With a deep bow, he pressed his palms together in gratitude.

What is “emptiness” in Buddhism?

Kongzhi was confused because he was stuck in an intellectual idea of emptiness rather than truly understanding it.

When he said, “Everything is empty,” he was treating emptiness as just a concept, as if it simply meant denying the existence of things. But the moment he felt pain, he immediately reacted to it—showing that his understanding of emptiness hadn’t really changed how he experienced the world.

Emptiness doesn’t mean nothingness—it means things have no fixed, independent existence.

In Buddhism, emptiness isn’t about saying nothing exists. Instead, it means that everything, including the mind, Buddha, and all living beings, only exists because of causes and conditions. Nothing stands alone. Pain, for example, isn’t something absolute—it arises because of certain conditions. If you see pain as something solid and real, you’re clinging to it. But if you insist that pain doesn’t exist at all, you’re falling into another extreme—denying reality altogether.

Bodhidharma struck Kongzhi to break his mistaken idea of emptiness and make him see his own attachment. True emptiness doesn’t mean rejecting pain. It means going beyond being controlled by it. When you realize that pain isn’t something fixed or absolute, then pain and emptiness no longer contradict each other—they coexist.

Emptiness is a wisdom beyond duality

Bodhidharma’s words—”See what cannot be seen, hear what cannot be heard, know what cannot be known”—point directly to the true nature of emptiness.

  • “See what cannot be seen”—Everything we perceive is fleeting and conditioned. Forms appear real, but they are merely temporary combinations of causes and conditions. To see beyond appearances is to glimpse the eternal truth.
  • “Hear what cannot be heard”—Ordinary people are moved by external sounds, yet true wisdom does not rely on what is heard outside. Instead, it listens to the “soundless sound”—the inner awareness and reflection that leads to awakening.
  • “Know what cannot be known”—Everything we think we know is relative. Truth cannot be grasped through words or concepts but must be realized beyond intellectual understanding. The mind, limited as it is, cannot fully comprehend the infinite. Only by letting go of fixed ideas can one truly approach reality.

Emptiness is freedom—flowing with conditions, unbound by attachment

Kongzhi misunderstood emptiness as a passive state, believing that to the diversity of the world—saying “I am not myself” or “pain is not pain”—was to realize emptiness.

But true emptiness is about transcendence and harmony. It is a wisdom that moves freely, without obstruction. Emptiness does not reject the world—it allows one to be fully present in it without being confined or limited by it. Just as a person can be a father, a man, a leader, a teacher, or a friend, these roles do not define or limit who they truly are.

Like water—formless by nature, yet taking the shape of any vessel—emptiness is the ability to adapt and flow without resistance. It does not erase existence but ensures that existence remains unbound.

When Kongzhi clung to the idea of “no saint, no ordinary being; no good, no evil,” he was still trapped in duality. True emptiness does not reject good and evil—it recognizes that both arise from conditions and have no fixed essence. With this understanding, one moves freely within the world, responding without attachment.

As Master Huineng said, “Where the previous thought does not arise, that is the mind; where the next thought does not cease, that is the Buddha.” To let thoughts arise and fade naturally, without clinging, is to follow conditions without attachment—to be empty, yet not empty.

Bodhidharma’s strike—a compassionate awakening

Bodhidharma’s strike was not an act of punishment but an opportunity for sudden awakening—a direct break from conceptual barriers. As long as Kongzhi remained trapped in theoretical discussions of emptiness, he could never truly go beyond them. Only when he directly faced his own mind and experienced the arising and fading of pain could he understand: emptiness does not negate pain, and pain itself is emptiness.

This is the essence of Zen’s direct approach—pointing straight to the mind, bypassing words and intellect to reach the truth. Clinging to emptiness while rejecting phenomena is a form of delusion; clinging to existence while losing sight of one’s nature is also an illusion. True wisdom lies in embracing both emptiness and existence.

As the Heart Sutra states: “Form is emptiness, emptiness is form.”

Bodhidharma’s strike was a classic Zen awakening—a wordless revelation. Kongzhi’s reaction to the pain revealed that his understanding of emptiness was still confined to concepts. He had yet to transcend worldly distinctions. That strike forced him to rethink: “What is emptiness? Why do I feel pain? If all is empty, why am I still attached?”

Emptiness is not nothingness, but the absence of inherent nature

In Buddhism, “emptiness” does not mean negating everything, nor is it mere nothingness. If one interprets emptiness as “nothing exists,” they fall into the extreme of nihilism, which is a mistaken view. True emptiness refers to the absence of inherent nature—all things arise due to causes and conditions, without an independent and unchanging essence.

Take water as an example: when there is no wind, it is still and reflective like a mirror; when the wind blows, waves arise. The form of water changes, but its nature remains. The same applies to all things in the world—they are temporary manifestations rather than absolute existences.

Kongzhi’s mistake was that he remained trapped in negation. He believed that understanding “all things are empty” meant rejecting distinctions such as sacred and mundane, good and evil, giving and receiving. However, true emptiness does not deny these phenomena but instead frees one from attachment to them. Bodhidharma’s strike was meant to show Kongzhi that his understanding of emptiness had not yet truly taken root in his mind.

It is important to understand that Kongzhi, Bodhidharma, and the Buddha are ultimately no different from one another. One should not assume that Kongzhi is inferior in cultivation while Bodhidharma is superior. Do not let external appearances obscure the boundless and unobstructed nature of your own mind.

The two levels of emptiness: conceptual understanding and direct realization

1. Conceptual understanding

This is the stage many beginners go through, where emptiness is understood with the interllectual mind. For example, when Kongzhi says, “There is no saint or ordinary being, no giving or receiving, no good or evil,” he is engaging in conceptual emptiness—negating duality in theory and believing that all things are empty.

However, mere conceptual understanding cannot dissolve attachment. This is why Bodhidharma struck him—because Kongzhi was still trapped in intellectual reasoning rather than directly experiencing emptiness. If he had truly realized emptiness, he might have felt pain, but he would not have clung to it, nor would he have questioned Bodhidharma, “Why did you hit me?”

2. Direct realization

Direct realization of emptiness is not a conclusion reached through logical reasoning but an intuitive awakening—directly perceiving that pain itself is empty, and emptiness does not obstruct pain. In other words, it is not about denying the existence of pain but recognizing its absence of inherent nature and its fleeting, insubstantial nature.

The state of realizing emptiness is like a mirror—it reflects everything but clings to nothing. Saints and ordinary beings, good and evil, giving and receiving—all are like the moon in water or flowers in a mirror. They appear due to conditions and vanish when conditions cease, leaving no trace behind.

Imagine walking through a storm. The rain lashes against your face, and the cold bites into your skin, yet you feel neither anger nor suffering. You understand that the storm is temporary and will eventually pass. You no longer cling to the discomfort of the wind and rain but simply accept their presence, experiencing their constant ebb and flow.

Right and wrong, joy and suffering—all are mere illusions that will ultimately fade away. Clinging to them is like trying to write on water—ultimately futile.

The true meaning of seeing, hearing, and knowing

In the end, Bodhidharma said: “See what cannot be seen, hear what cannot be heard, know what cannot be known—only then is it the truth.” This statement is the deepest expression of emptiness.

  • “See what cannot be seen” – To see all forms yet perceive their inherent emptiness. This is not what the physical eye can grasp but what the mind’s eye perceives. Ordinary beings see only the transient appearances of things; the awakened perceive the truth beyond birth and death. This is true essence.
  • “Hear what cannot be heard” – What we hear are sounds; what we cannot hear is their inherent silence. As Master Huineng said: “To be detached from external appearances is Zen; to remain undisturbed within is concentration.” If one clings to what is heard, one remains trapped in arising and ceasing. But to hear the silence within sound is to transcend duality—to let perception flow without attachment.
  • “Know what cannot be known” – Everything we know is acquired; what we do not know is the wisdom beyond distinction. Anything that can be conceived or spoken belongs to the realm of relativity. Only by letting go of conceptual thought and discursive knowledge can one directly realize the source of emptiness—this is clarity.

In the Vimalakirti Sutra, Manjushri asked the bodhisattvas, “How does one enter the gate of non-duality?” Each bodhisattva gave their answer, yet none were ultimate. Finally, Vimalakirti remained silent. Manjushri sighed and said, “This is the true entrance to the gate of non-duality.”

True realization transcends words. It is not about seeking emptiness through dualistic thinking but naturally abiding in it—this is the real meaning of seeing, hearing, and knowing.

How to practice emptiness?

Buddhism teaches emptiness not as an escape from reality, but as a way to transcend its constraints and live with greater freedom and harmony. True emptiness allows one to move through life with ease, adapting to circumstances without being bound by them. The Heart Sutra embodies this wisdom, guiding the mind toward awakening and self-realization.

1. Emptiness in daily life

Emptiness does not mean passivity or inaction—it means going with the flow without attachment.

When facing difficulties, if you can recognize that “all things lack inherent nature and are ever-changing,” you won’t be trapped in suffering.

When others criticize, deceive, or misunderstand you, if you do not cling to these experiences, anger will not arise, and their words will not bring you pain.

2. Emptiness in relationships

When one truly understands emptiness, the mind is no longer swayed by external circumstances. Praise does not inflate the ego, nor does criticism cause distress. This is because all judgments arise and fade due to conditions, like floating clouds—there is no need to cling to them.

3. Emptiness in spiritual practice

If a practitioner clings to practice itself, it becomes another form of attachment. Many people recite the Buddha’s name, meditate, and uphold precepts, yet their minds remain entangled, believing that practice is a kind of achievement.

True practice is the practice of non-practice—even if one upholds precepts with purity, one does not cling to purity; even if one realizes emptiness, one does not cling to emptiness.

As the Diamond Sutra states: “If a bodhisattva clings to the notions of self, others, sentient beings, or lifespan, he is not a true bodhisattva.” A true bodhisattva does not attach to the idea of being a bodhisattva, but simply acts in accordance with emptiness—giving without attachment.

Conclusion: From Conceptual Emptiness to Experiential Emptiness

Kongzhi received Bodhidharma’s blow because he had not yet truly transcended dualistic thinking. His words seemed enlightened, but his mind was still entangled in attachment. That single strike was a direct pointing, forcing him to move beyond intellectual emptiness and into experiential emptiness.

True emptiness is non-attachment. It does not reject the world but moves freely within it. It is not indifference or nihilism, but compassion and wisdom.

As the Heart Sutra states: “Form is emptiness, emptiness is form.”

Look at the world—things continue to arise and pass away. Yet, when the mind is no longer disturbed, that is true emptiness.

I bow to all great beings.
I bow to all sentient beings.
I bow to all phenomena.
May we all partake in this profound feast of Dharma.

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浅谈信仰与性格的契合:不同的信仰与性格之间有什么联系?

Yicheng · Oct 23, 2024

信仰不仅仅是一种宗教习惯与文化身份的选择,更是一种深刻影响人类心理和生活方式的精神力量。不同的信仰体系各具特色,吸引着性格迥异的人群。事实上,心理学和宗教学领域的研究表明,性格与信仰的契合度影响着一个人如何与信仰互动、如何从中获得意义和指导。本文将基于性格心理学理论,结合具体实例,探讨哪些性格特点更适合与佛法、基督教、上帝信仰、道教以及伊斯兰教的真神信仰相契合。 1. 佛法与沉静内省的性格 佛教提倡“放下”和“无我”的理念,追求内心的平静和解脱。因此,性格内向、倾向于自我反省和冥想的人往往更容易与佛法产生共鸣。喜欢独处并深入思考人生意义的人,往往能更好地接受佛法中对苦、无常和空性的教义。他们通常善于自我反省和冥想,更倾向于在静思中寻求心灵的安宁。此外,具有高度同情心和关怀他人的性格也与佛教的慈悲理念相契合,因为佛教强调减少他人痛苦,并对所有众生平等看待。例如,现代社会中许多压力过大的人通过禅修找到内心的平静,这反映出佛法在帮助沉静内省者应对生活挑战上的独特作用。此外,心理学家卡尔·荣格(Carl Jung)的性格类型学也提到,内倾型性格的人往往有较强的精神需求,而佛教的自我观照和冥想正契合这种内在需求。 著名的禅宗大师铃木大拙(D.T. Suzuki)就是一个内向且对人生意义有深刻思考的人。他通过将佛教禅修引入西方,帮助了许多内倾型的人找到自我安顿之道。 2. 基督教与开放热情的性格 基督教以“爱”与“宽恕”为核心,鼓励信徒积极与他人建立深厚的关系,传播福音。这使得外向、热情且社交性强的个体容易被其吸引。因此,那些性格外向、热情、乐于助人并且喜欢与人互动的人,往往更容易在基督教信仰中找到归属感。这些人通常善于表达自己的情感,并能够积极参与教会活动和社会服务。此外,喜欢追求明确目标并遵循规矩的人也能从基督教的教义中获得精神支持,因为基督教常提供一套清晰的生活指导原则。根据艾森克(Hans Eysenck)的性格理论,外向型性格更喜欢与人互动,容易从社交活动中获得能量,这类人常能在教会活动和志愿服务中找到归属感。例如,许多传教士都是充满激情的外向型人格,他们不仅擅长传播基督教的爱与宽恕之道,也能从中获得情感上的满足。 特蕾莎修女(Mother Teresa)的例子尤为经典,她不仅以其深刻的信仰感人至深,还通过持续的慈善工作展现了基督教信仰对世界的影响力。她的性格特点正是典型的热情外向,并且具有极强的同理心和奉献精神。 3. 上帝信仰与追求真理的性格 上帝信仰,尤其是在犹太教、伊斯兰教和部分基督教传统中,强调对绝对真理和超越现实的追求。这种信仰体系吸引着具有强烈求知欲、理性思维发达的人群。那些具有强烈好奇心、喜欢探求哲学问题并寻求终极答案的人,往往对上帝信仰表现出浓厚的兴趣。这些人通常富有逻辑思维,能够接受信仰的理性维度。此外,崇尚道德与正义感强烈的性格也与此类信仰相匹配,因为上帝信仰中对伦理道德有着明确的要求。心理学家乔丹·彼得森(Jordan Peterson)指出,那些具有哲学兴趣和逻辑思维能力强的人,往往对上帝信仰表现出浓厚的兴趣,因为他们渴望在混沌世界中找到确定性的答案。 例如,著名的科学家艾萨克·牛顿(Isaac Newton)不仅是一位杰出的物理学家,也是虔诚的基督徒,他的上帝信仰为他的科学研究提供了精神动力。牛顿认为,探索自然规律是理解上帝智慧的方式,这一观点揭示了追求真理的性格与上帝信仰之间的紧密联系。 4. 道教与自然洒脱的性格 性格随和、喜欢自由的个体通常更容易认同道教的理念。这些人往往不喜欢过于复杂的规则,更倾向于顺应自然、享受生活的本真状态。道教主张顺应自然、自我超脱、倡导“无为而治”讲究“天人合一”。因此,那些性格随和、不拘小节且追求内心自由的人,往往与道教有着天然的契合,顺应自然、享受生活的本真状态。道教的思想适合性格中带有“洒脱”和“随性”的人,因为它提倡顺其自然、淡泊名利,不强求外界的成就。道教中注重调养生息、追求长生的教义也适合那些重视身心健康与和谐生活的人。心理学中的“开放性”维度也显示,那些思维开放且崇尚自由的个体对道教的教义更感兴趣,因为道教鼓励人们摆脱社会的束缚,追求自我解放。 例如:老子提出的“道法自然”理念影响深远,其思想不仅被中国古代哲人所推崇,也引起了许多现代西方学者的兴趣,例如英国作家阿尔杜斯·赫胥黎(Aldous Huxley),他在自己的作品中多次探讨道教的思想。 5. 真神信仰与纪律严明的性格 伊斯兰教的信仰生活中充满了严格的宗教仪式和生活准则,如每日礼拜、斋戒和慈善捐赠。这些要求对性格自律、纪律严明的人格类型来说相对容易接受。他们通常有较高的责任感,愿意严格遵循信仰规定. 在伊斯兰教中,对真神的信仰贯穿于生活的各个方面,包括礼拜、禁食和慈善。那些性格自律、重视纪律并善于遵守仪式的人,往往能很好地适应伊斯兰教的信仰要求。这些人具有较强的责任感和社会义务感,能够严格遵循教义的指引。同时,崇尚集体主义、乐于融入群体的性格也符合伊斯兰教的价值观,因为该信仰强调社群的团结和共同的宗教生活。人格心理学中的“尽责性”维度就强调这种性格特点,与伊斯兰教的行为准则契合度较高。 现代社会中,许多穆斯林通过严格的宗教生活找到个人的稳定感和生活意义。如,在一些严格遵守宗教义务的穆斯林国家,社会的团结性和宗教仪式的统一性被视为集体信仰力量的体现。 性格特点与信仰的选择密切相关,适合的信仰能够为人们的精神生活提供支持和引导。理解不同性格适合的信仰特点,不仅可以帮助个人找到最能让自己安心的精神家园,还可以促进不同信仰之间多元化的相互理解和包容。在追求信仰的过程中,重要的是对自己的性格特点有清晰的认识,并选择适合自己心灵成长的信仰之路。希望这篇文章对大家有所帮助。

執迷不悟的修行者

Master Wonder · Oct 23, 2024

有一天,一位來自中國山東的年輕人前來諮詢,向我講述了他遭遇不公的經歷。經過一番觀察,我了解了事情的來龍去脈,以及其中的因果關係。為了警示佛法修行者,我將此事記錄下來。 有些佛法修行者,在去世後,由於對生前師者的深厚情感和執著,選擇不去轉生,而是發願守護師者,振興佛法。這本應是一件好事,但他們未曾意識到,自己無法往生極樂世界,正是因為生前功德有欠缺。然而,由於生前修行尚存善德與佛德,天地神靈敬重佛德,因此特別關照,為他們提供便利。 這些修行者在人間,按照師者的指引,尋找未來的佛菩薩,類似於藏地尋找轉世活佛。然而,他們未能認識到,自己修行佛法的主要缺陷在於未能悟證得「眾生即佛」的真諦。 皈依三寶(佛、法、僧)中,佛為首。佛旨在讓眾生認清無知無明,脫離苦海,達至彼岸,成就一切善果與功德。佛德遍及天下,慈悲為懷,救拔眾生,天地敬仰,人神供養。 然而,這些護持佛法的修行者誤解了師者的指示,早早在人們年幼時便認定他們是自己要尋找的對象,進而不斷提示,數年後甚至上身附體。他們忘記了佛陀的教誨:「眾生皆可成佛。」而把師者的話當作佛旨,未能明白: 一切佛法源自眾生, 一切佛經由眾生傳承, 一切佛皆由眾生而至。 佛陀曾說:「我什麼也沒有說。」這句話已經足夠說明問題。 這些修行者的缺陷,正是因為在生前僅皈依師者或僧侶,而未能真正認識到眾生即佛。如果僅皈依一人,又何必強調三寶的共同勉勵?佛是智慧者、開悟者、解慧者,旨在避免修行者走入誤區。然而,問題還是發生了。 情感上的依賴並非真正的皈依三寶。那些自稱「我師父是佛菩薩」的修行者,尤其需要警醒。 修行有缺,路途受阻,恐難圓滿! 特此提醒:皈依三寶,以道德善,行修菩提之道。

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