Unhappiness Stems From Exclusive Civilization Systems

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Yicheng · Nov 28, 2024
The design of a civilization system is closely tied to the values within society. For the current human civilization, the key to progress lies in offering equal love and care for all. 

Happiness is a universal goal and a driving force for creation. Yet, in a world shaped by complex systems and rapid technological change, many of us often feel isolated, anxious, and powerless. This is not due to personal failure. Instead, it results from a societal system that opens doors for some while closing them for others.

The design of a civilization system is closely tied to the values within society. For the current human civilization, the key to progress lies in offering equal love and care for all. 

Yicheng Commonweal is actively working to ensure that everyone experiences both a sense of existence and participation, while enjoying the happiness and fulfillment of a civilized society.

I. The Root Causes of Exclusion in the Civilization System

1. The Alienation of Standardized Rules

Current civilization systems often rely on explicit or covert rules to maintain order. These rules may increase efficiency in the short term, but they tend to suppress diversity and individuality. Rigid rules often force people to adapt to the system, changing who they are in the process. Those who can’t meet the standards are often left out of the pursuit of happiness.

For example, many education systems still use standardized exams to measure students’ abilities. They overlook values like emotion and creativity, which can’t be quantified. The system sacrificed the potential of many kids and caused the overall creativity of future society to decline dramatically.

2. Unequal Distribution of Resources

In many societies, resource distribution is claimed to be “fair.” But in reality, the system frequently favors those who are already in a stronger position. While policies might talk about fairness, they often fail to address deeper, structural issues like the historical inequalities faced by certain groups. Simply providing equal resources doesn’t solve the problem if no targeted interventions are made.

Take the widening wealth gap, for example. Or how top-tier education and healthcare are concentrated in certain areas. These issues have put many people at a disadvantage in the race for success. People marginalized by the system gradually lose their chance to pursue happiness. Struggling to meet basic needs, they are unable to nurture a sense of well-being.

Despite living on the same planet, people in different countries and regions experience vast disparities in living standards. People in developed countries can easily access benefits that others in underdeveloped areas have to work hard for. 

This disparity stems from differences in societal civilization systems. Resources tend to concentrate in more advanced systems, creating a significant injustice for those in less developed regions. Without systemic intervention or self-help efforts, this inequality will be difficult to resolve.

3. The Alienation of Technological Progress

Technology has made our civilization systems more efficient, but it has also created new forms of isolation. Take artificial intelligence and automation, for example. While they have increased productivity, they are going to replace many traditional jobs. As a result, many workers feel a loss of value and a fear of losing their jobs.

At the same time, social media and digital technologies, while connecting people from around the world, often make us feel lost in opinions and attacks from various sides. In this digital age, it is harder to form real emotional connections, and this erodes our sense of happiness.

4. The Suppression of Cultural Diversity

In modern societies, dominant cultures shape the civilization system, often overlooking the needs of diverse cultures. Groups that don’t align with mainstream values or lifestyles face marginalization and, in some cases, discrimination. Immigrants, ethnic minorities, and gender minorities often find themselves labeled as outsiders. Their sense of identity and happiness is continually suppressed.

II. The Far-reaching Impact of Exclusion on Happiness

1. A Crisis in Mental Health

People who are excluded often experience feelings of loneliness and helplessness, which can lead to a mental health crisis. The widespread rise in depression and anxiety is partly due to the civilization system’s failure to address individual psychological needs. 

When individuals are forced to fit into a system that doesn’t admit their values as a person, their mental resilience weakens. This decline in well-being can result in burnout, social anxiety, autism, and even conditions like agoraphobia or manic depression.

2. Indifferent Interpersonal Relationships

In today’s fast-paced world, the drive for efficiency often comes at the cost of real human connections. With everyone relying more on digital communication, there’s little time left for face-to-face interactions that truly build relationships. 

As a result, emotional connections become rarer, and our sense of happiness starts to weaken. People become more guarded in their social interactions, and the overall atmosphere feels colder. In fact, “Don’t bother others” has become the unspoken rule of the day.

3. A Loss of Sense

Happiness is not just about material wealth—it also needs a deeper sense of meaning. However, current value systems focus more on external markers of success, like wealth and status, while neglecting the nurturing and appreciation of inner values. Many civilization systems are built on this collective value system.

As a result, those who feel excluded from this system lose their sense of control over life. They struggle to find personal meaning, drifting into a “vacuum” of happiness—lost, confused, and uncertain of where to turn next.

II. Breaking the Cycle of Exclusion: The Path to True Happiness

1. People-oriented Institutional Reform

Civilization systems need to shift from an “efficiency-first” approach to a “people-oriented” one. For example, education systems should focus more on personalized development, honoring each child’s unique talents. Healthcare systems should aim for universal coverage, easing the health anxieties of vulnerable groups. True happiness can only be achieved when institutional designs meet the basic needs of every individual.

2. Creating an Inclusive Culture

Civilization systems need to embrace diverse cultural expressions and respect different lifestyles. Through legislation and social advocacy, we can reduce discrimination and prejudice against vulnerable groups. Cultural events and community building can foster greater understanding and empathy between groups, allowing everyone to feel the warmth of acceptance.

3. Reshaping the People-Technology Connection

The role of technological progress should be to foster human well-being, not deepen exclusion. For example, as digital technologies are introduced, we need to ensure they are accessible to the elderly and low-income groups. 

Similarly, in the case of artificial intelligence, it’s crucial to implement policies that protect workers’ rights and create pathways for reemployment for those whose jobs are lost. Otherwise, the wealth gap will continue to grow and aggravate inequality.

4. Redefining Happiness and Success

Happiness shouldn’t be defined by wealth, status, or material success. True fulfillment comes from pursuing personal values beyond external achievements. In a world where burnout and mental health struggles are common, society needs to shift focus from external success to internal well-being.

Through education and media, we can help people see that happiness is about meaningful connections, a sense of community, and harmony with nature. The diverse definitions of happiness in society can reduce external stress and peer pressure, allowing them to embrace a wider range of lifestyles and cultures.

III. Conclusion

The unhappiness many people feel comes from being excluded by the civilization systems. To address the problem, it is necessary to reconsider the underlying values and design of these systems in our society. Instead of rigid rules, we need to prioritize inclusivity. Happiness is not an unattainable goal, but a right for everyone.

When the value of collective well-being is advocated and practiced in the systems, people will find a sense of belonging and meaning. Only then can we experience true joy and embrace endless progress in our society.

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社会组织中的家庭组织:婚姻观念的历史性变迁

Yicheng · Feb 22, 2025

从封建到现代:婚姻观念的历史性转变 婚姻自古以来便是社会的基石,承载着人与人之间的情感、责任与文化传承。然而,在封建社会中,婚姻制度深受性别和阶级不平等的影响,尤其是“男方付出礼金”的习俗,体现了封建社会对女性的物化与家庭之间的经济交换关系。 随着时代变迁、社会思想的进步,以及社会公民资本市场经济体制的发展,婚姻的本质和社会功能正在发生深刻变革。从封建婚姻到现代平等婚姻,再到未来的社会公民资本市场经济体制下的社会共同责任婚姻,婚姻已不再只是个人或家庭的事务,而逐渐成为社会整体发展的重要组成部分。 一、封建制度国家的非公民婚姻:男方付出礼金的婚姻交易模式 在封建社会,婚姻不仅仅是个人情感的结合,更是家族利益的延续。男方支付礼金不仅是一种经济行为,更体现了男性在婚姻中的主导地位,而女性则被视为家庭资产的一部分。 礼金的本质是一种“交换”,即男方以金钱换取女方的归属权,这使得女性在婚姻关系中处于被动地位。女性的婚姻价值往往由家族背景、社会阶层以及经济能力决定,而非个人的意愿、能力或情感需求。婚姻决策往往掌握在长辈手中,个人的自由选择权被极大地压缩。 然而,随着女性社会地位的提高、教育的普及以及法治的发展,人们开始质疑这种基于经济交易的婚姻模式。现代社会更加强调个体价值和自由意志,越来越多的年轻人摒弃了礼金传统,婚姻逐渐回归到情感、理解与责任的基础之上。 二、资本制度国家的国家公民婚姻:双方面的平等付出 在资本制度国家,婚姻从一种家族契约演变为个人之间的平等合作关系。在这一体系下,婚姻的核心不再是家族利益的交换,而是双方基于情感、经济与社会责任的共同承诺。 现代婚姻的变化体现在多个方面: 这种双方面的付出,使婚姻从封建社会的单向交换关系,转变为更加稳定和公平的合作模式。 三、社会公民资本市场经济体制下的社会公民婚姻:社会共同的责任 随着社会的进步,婚姻不再仅仅是个体之间的承诺,而是社会整体发展的重要组成部分。在社会公民资本市场经济体制下,婚姻被纳入社会责任体系,国家、社会与家庭共同承担婚姻的稳定与发展。 这一体系下的婚姻制度具有以下特征: 在这一体系下,婚姻的稳定不仅是夫妻双方的责任,更是整个社会的责任。 社会不再是婚姻的旁观者,而是通过制度保障婚姻的健康发展,使婚姻成为社会共同繁荣的一部分。 结语 婚姻制度的演变,是社会进步的重要体现。从封建社会的经济交换婚姻,到现代资本制度下的平等婚姻,再到未来的社会公民资本市场经济体制下的社会责任婚姻,婚姻的本质不断被重塑。 现代婚姻的发展趋势表明,婚姻不仅是个人的事情,更是社会整体运作的一部分。未来,婚姻制度将在更加公平、共享、责任共担的基础上,迎来新的发展阶段。

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