Unhappiness Stems From Exclusive Civilization Systems

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Yicheng · Nov 28, 2024
The design of a civilization system is closely tied to the values within society. For the current human civilization, the key to progress lies in offering equal love and care for all. 

Happiness is a universal goal and a driving force for creation. Yet, in a world shaped by complex systems and rapid technological change, many of us often feel isolated, anxious, and powerless. This is not due to personal failure. Instead, it results from a societal system that opens doors for some while closing them for others.

The design of a civilization system is closely tied to the values within society. For the current human civilization, the key to progress lies in offering equal love and care for all. 

Yicheng Commonweal is actively working to ensure that everyone experiences both a sense of existence and participation, while enjoying the happiness and fulfillment of a civilized society.

I. The Root Causes of Exclusion in the Civilization System

1. The Alienation of Standardized Rules

Current civilization systems often rely on explicit or covert rules to maintain order. These rules may increase efficiency in the short term, but they tend to suppress diversity and individuality. Rigid rules often force people to adapt to the system, changing who they are in the process. Those who can’t meet the standards are often left out of the pursuit of happiness.

For example, many education systems still use standardized exams to measure students’ abilities. They overlook values like emotion and creativity, which can’t be quantified. The system sacrificed the potential of many kids and caused the overall creativity of future society to decline dramatically.

2. Unequal Distribution of Resources

In many societies, resource distribution is claimed to be “fair.” But in reality, the system frequently favors those who are already in a stronger position. While policies might talk about fairness, they often fail to address deeper, structural issues like the historical inequalities faced by certain groups. Simply providing equal resources doesn’t solve the problem if no targeted interventions are made.

Take the widening wealth gap, for example. Or how top-tier education and healthcare are concentrated in certain areas. These issues have put many people at a disadvantage in the race for success. People marginalized by the system gradually lose their chance to pursue happiness. Struggling to meet basic needs, they are unable to nurture a sense of well-being.

Despite living on the same planet, people in different countries and regions experience vast disparities in living standards. People in developed countries can easily access benefits that others in underdeveloped areas have to work hard for. 

This disparity stems from differences in societal civilization systems. Resources tend to concentrate in more advanced systems, creating a significant injustice for those in less developed regions. Without systemic intervention or self-help efforts, this inequality will be difficult to resolve.

3. The Alienation of Technological Progress

Technology has made our civilization systems more efficient, but it has also created new forms of isolation. Take artificial intelligence and automation, for example. While they have increased productivity, they are going to replace many traditional jobs. As a result, many workers feel a loss of value and a fear of losing their jobs.

At the same time, social media and digital technologies, while connecting people from around the world, often make us feel lost in opinions and attacks from various sides. In this digital age, it is harder to form real emotional connections, and this erodes our sense of happiness.

4. The Suppression of Cultural Diversity

In modern societies, dominant cultures shape the civilization system, often overlooking the needs of diverse cultures. Groups that don’t align with mainstream values or lifestyles face marginalization and, in some cases, discrimination. Immigrants, ethnic minorities, and gender minorities often find themselves labeled as outsiders. Their sense of identity and happiness is continually suppressed.

II. The Far-reaching Impact of Exclusion on Happiness

1. A Crisis in Mental Health

People who are excluded often experience feelings of loneliness and helplessness, which can lead to a mental health crisis. The widespread rise in depression and anxiety is partly due to the civilization system’s failure to address individual psychological needs. 

When individuals are forced to fit into a system that doesn’t admit their values as a person, their mental resilience weakens. This decline in well-being can result in burnout, social anxiety, autism, and even conditions like agoraphobia or manic depression.

2. Indifferent Interpersonal Relationships

In today’s fast-paced world, the drive for efficiency often comes at the cost of real human connections. With everyone relying more on digital communication, there’s little time left for face-to-face interactions that truly build relationships. 

As a result, emotional connections become rarer, and our sense of happiness starts to weaken. People become more guarded in their social interactions, and the overall atmosphere feels colder. In fact, “Don’t bother others” has become the unspoken rule of the day.

3. A Loss of Sense

Happiness is not just about material wealth—it also needs a deeper sense of meaning. However, current value systems focus more on external markers of success, like wealth and status, while neglecting the nurturing and appreciation of inner values. Many civilization systems are built on this collective value system.

As a result, those who feel excluded from this system lose their sense of control over life. They struggle to find personal meaning, drifting into a “vacuum” of happiness—lost, confused, and uncertain of where to turn next.

II. Breaking the Cycle of Exclusion: The Path to True Happiness

1. People-oriented Institutional Reform

Civilization systems need to shift from an “efficiency-first” approach to a “people-oriented” one. For example, education systems should focus more on personalized development, honoring each child’s unique talents. Healthcare systems should aim for universal coverage, easing the health anxieties of vulnerable groups. True happiness can only be achieved when institutional designs meet the basic needs of every individual.

2. Creating an Inclusive Culture

Civilization systems need to embrace diverse cultural expressions and respect different lifestyles. Through legislation and social advocacy, we can reduce discrimination and prejudice against vulnerable groups. Cultural events and community building can foster greater understanding and empathy between groups, allowing everyone to feel the warmth of acceptance.

3. Reshaping the People-Technology Connection

The role of technological progress should be to foster human well-being, not deepen exclusion. For example, as digital technologies are introduced, we need to ensure they are accessible to the elderly and low-income groups. 

Similarly, in the case of artificial intelligence, it’s crucial to implement policies that protect workers’ rights and create pathways for reemployment for those whose jobs are lost. Otherwise, the wealth gap will continue to grow and aggravate inequality.

4. Redefining Happiness and Success

Happiness shouldn’t be defined by wealth, status, or material success. True fulfillment comes from pursuing personal values beyond external achievements. In a world where burnout and mental health struggles are common, society needs to shift focus from external success to internal well-being.

Through education and media, we can help people see that happiness is about meaningful connections, a sense of community, and harmony with nature. The diverse definitions of happiness in society can reduce external stress and peer pressure, allowing them to embrace a wider range of lifestyles and cultures.

III. Conclusion

The unhappiness many people feel comes from being excluded by the civilization systems. To address the problem, it is necessary to reconsider the underlying values and design of these systems in our society. Instead of rigid rules, we need to prioritize inclusivity. Happiness is not an unattainable goal, but a right for everyone.

When the value of collective well-being is advocated and practiced in the systems, people will find a sense of belonging and meaning. Only then can we experience true joy and embrace endless progress in our society.

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见法理者识法容,顺道而上

Master Wonder · Jan 17, 2025

佛教认为,一切法相(法容)皆是如来智慧的投影,而法理(法性)是这些投影背后的永恒真理。众生由于无明,往往迷失于法相之中,执着于现象的表层,而未能通达法性的实质。“见法理者识法容,顺道而上”——这句话蕴含着从迷到悟、从表到里的修行次第。 本文将深入探讨:如何通过观察法容而见法理,如何超越对现象的执著而升华心灵,最终走向无上正等正觉。 一、法容与法理:显现与实相的统一 1. 法容即法相:诸法之形 法容是法理的外在显现,是佛陀因应众生根器而施设的“方便法门”。比如,《金刚经》中提到“一切有为法,如梦幻泡影”,梦幻泡影即法相,它是短暂、无常的,但却能引导众生看透虚妄而悟真实。 法容的核心意义在于启发众生的智慧,通过有限的形式来指向无限的真理。 2. 法理即法性:诸法之本 法理是宇宙的终极真相,佛教称之为“性空”,即一切法皆无自性,缘起而生。若执著于法容,而忽视其背后的法性,就如同“指月之指”:盯着手指却看不到月亮。 法理强调破除执著,如《心经》中的“无眼耳鼻舌身意”即在揭示超越现象而见真性的智慧。 二、见法理者:从“相”到“性”的洞见 1. 从法容入手,觉知法理 初学者往往依靠法容来开启修行之路,例如礼佛、持咒、阅经。这些外在形式能够帮助修行者建立正念和虔诚心,但不能停留于此。 见法理需要在法容中深思其背后的真理。例如,礼佛不仅是对佛像顶礼,而是借此感受佛陀的慈悲与智慧,从而内化为自我修行的动力。 2. 超越现象,通达本质 真正见法理者,不会执著于形式上的法容,而是透过现象看本质,见诸法实相。 如《楞严经》所云:“凡所有相,皆是虚妄。”法容虽美,但它的意义在于让众生舍“相”而归“性”,从有限走向无限。 三、顺道而上:修行的三重境界 第一境:依相修行 初学阶段,法容是修行的依托。戒律、经典、佛像等法相都为众生提供了一种具体的引导。 这一阶段的关键是“相应”,即通过外在的修行形式培养正见与正信,为见法理奠定基础。 第二境:通达法性 当修行者对法容不再执著,而能以智慧观照时,就进入“通”的阶段。例如,禅修中的“观心”正是从表象进入内在,从执著于心的念头,转而看到心的本质——本无一物。 第三境:无相圆满 最终,修行者达到超越相与理的圆满境界,即无相而见性。此时,法容与法理已无分别,修行者内心通达无碍,圆满觉悟。 如《金刚经》所言:“若以色见我,以音声求我,是人行邪道,不能见如来。”佛陀不在形相之中,而在众生的觉性中。 四、佛教经典与实例的深度启示 1. 《法华经》中的“一乘大道” 《法华经》讲“一切众生皆具佛性”,法容是方便,而法性才是究竟。经典通过种种譬喻阐释法容与法理的关系,其中最具代表性的是“三车喻”。 故事中,父亲为救火宅中的孩子,许诺以羊车、鹿车和牛车作为奖励,诱使他们脱离危难。待孩子们安全后,父亲却赐予他们更为珍贵的大白牛车。 这表明,羊车、鹿车、牛车象征权宜的法门,即法容,是引导众生的善巧方便;而大白牛车象征唯一的“一乘大道”,即通向觉悟的法理与究竟真谛。 这一寓言说明,修行者通过法容进入佛法,却不能停留在形式上,而需认识到这些法容只是为了引导众生通达法性的“方便法”。唯有超越执著,方能走上“一乘大道”,实现圆满觉悟。 《法华经》中以“三车喻”讲述方便与真实的关系:火宅中父亲用三种车(羊车、鹿车、牛车)引诱孩子出危难,而最终赐予他们唯一的大白牛车。这三种车象征着不同的法容,都是为引导众生走出迷惑而设的“方便法”,而大白牛车代表佛陀的究竟教法,即唯一的法性之道。 这一经典寓意启示我们:修行者最初接触的各种法容,都是为了引导他们认识真实的法性。最终,当修行者见法理、识法容,便会明白法容并非目的,而是桥梁;法性才是归宿。 2. 善财童子的修行旅程 善财童子五十三参是修行从法容到法性的典范。他参访五十三位善知识,每位善知识通过不同的“法容”展现了佛法的智慧。例如:婆须蜜多女通过对财富的施舍,展现了布施的法相;弥勒菩萨通过楼阁展现因缘和合的法理。 最终,善财童子得以超越法容,直证实相,达至觉悟。这一过程表明,每一种法容都隐藏着通向真理的道路,修行者唯有深刻体察,才能识得其中的智慧。 五、法容无常,法性永恒:顺道而上的觉悟之境 1. 法容无常:不可执著于相 佛教的核心思想是“诸行无常,诸法无我”。法容虽是法的显现,但其本质是无常的,修行者若执著于法容,就会陷入分别心与执取心之中。 《金刚经》提醒修行者:“应如是生清净心,不应住色生心,不应住声香味触法生心,应无所住而生其心。”这段教导强调了修行中不要沉迷于外相,而要回归法性的清净。 2. 法性永恒:超越法容见真理 法性是佛法的究竟目标,是超越一切形式与现象的真实本质。法性无常中含有永恒,空无中蕴藏圆满,这正是修行者最终的归宿。 正如《心经》所揭示的“色即是空,空即是色”,现象与本质并非二元对立,而是统一的。这种圆融的智慧是顺道而上的最高境界。 六、顺道而上的现代启示 1. 现代人的法容与法理 在现代社会中,众生接触佛法的形式愈加多样:从寺院的仪式、佛经的阅读,到网络中的佛教传播,这些都是现代的“法容”。然而,法容的丰富多样也容易让人流于形式化的执著,如把佛教仅仅当成文化现象或一种心理安慰,而未深入体悟其法理的真谛。 […]

直面魔鬼,燃起温暖,守护正义

直面魔鬼,燃起温暖,守护正义

Master Wonder · Jan 16, 2025

近日,因受到一位信仰伊斯兰教之人的粗言辱骂,并见其照片,我心生愤懑,遂写此文。以真神之口吻,言辞虽有愤怒之情,望读者见谅。 一头蠢货,既不敢拿起你的弯刀砍下魔鬼,也不敢用自己胸中如火的温暖抚慰弱小与正义,甚至对善良视而不见,这就是我对你们的教导嘛! 有一种蠢货,沉溺于虚伪的平静,逃避责任,以为冷漠便是智慧。有一种愚昧,害怕直面邪恶,拒绝伸出援手,甚至假装善良不存在。他们沉默地接受不公,漠视世界的苦难,用所谓的“理性”掩饰内心的懦弱。这头蠢货,或许并不是他人,而正是我们每一个在信仰、正义与善良面前选择逃避的自己。 一、为何不敢拿起弯刀砍下魔鬼? 魔鬼不仅仅是宗教中的象征,更是社会和内心的具体映射: 为何我们无法拿起弯刀砍下这些魔鬼?因为我们总有无数借口: 真正的智慧,不是回避魔鬼的存在,而是直面它。拿起“弯刀”并非意味着盲目对抗,而是用信仰、行动与正义之心削弱邪恶的力量,捍卫我们赖以生存的社会环境。正如鲁迅所言:“真的勇士,敢于直面惨淡的人生,敢于正视淋漓的鲜血。“ 二、为何不敢以温暖抚慰弱小与良善? 在这个信息过载的时代,我们看到了太多的苦难与不公,但却变得愈发冷漠。胸中的火焰,被日复一日的麻木与焦虑熄灭。我们看见流浪者,却匆匆避开;我们听见呼救,却装作听不见; 我们目睹不公,却告诉自己“事不关己”。 温暖的缺失,源于人们对“温暖”价值的低估。同时,我们害怕付出,害怕被伤害,更害怕自己为他人做出努力却得不到回报。然而,这种自我保护最终使我们丧失了作为人的本质——关怀与爱。 抚慰弱小与守护正义,不是为了彰显自己的伟大,而是为世界注入改变的可能性。一颗充满爱与同情的心,可以在绝望中点燃希望,可以在苦难中带来慰藉。 温暖,不是强者施舍给弱者的恩惠,而是人类彼此间最珍贵的连接。 三、为何对善良视而不见? 善良,从来不需要惊天动地的壮举。它可能是一句鼓励的话语,一个及时的帮助,一份无条件的关怀。然而,许多人却对这份善良熟视无睹,甚至将善良视为软弱。 善良被忽视有很多原因,常见的有以下几种论调: 善良并非软弱,而是人类最有力量的选择。正如曼德拉所言:“善良比对抗更能改变世界。” 它不需要多么宏大的场景,也不需要多么伟大的壮举,只需从点滴开始做起,逐渐聚集力量,我们就能改变周围的环境,甚至改变世界。 四、为何行动如此重要? 无论信仰何种理念,真正的信仰都需要通过行动来证明。信仰不是一句口号,而是一种实践,它要求我们直面邪恶、温暖他人,并始终坚守善良。 那些选择冷漠与逃避的人,或许一时感到轻松,但最终将为自己的无知付出代价。冷漠让社会更加冷酷,逃避让邪恶更加猖狂,而善良的缺失则让灵魂陷入黑暗。 每个人都可以成为改变的力量。世界的改变,不需要英雄的壮举,而需要每个人在自己的位置上点燃一束光。 结语:拒绝做“蠢货” 也许是每一个在困难面前选择逃避的我们。但我们可以拒绝懦弱,拒绝冷漠,拒绝对善良的漠视。正如安拉所言,信仰的力量在于行动。而真正的修行,是用勇气、温暖与善良去照亮这个世界。 愿我们都能成为行动的践行者,用信仰的力量回应灵魂的质问。阿拉永远在与你同在。

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