Unhappiness Stems From Exclusive Civilization Systems

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Yicheng · Nov 28, 2024
The design of a civilization system is closely tied to the values within society. For the current human civilization, the key to progress lies in offering equal love and care for all. 

Happiness is a universal goal and a driving force for creation. Yet, in a world shaped by complex systems and rapid technological change, many of us often feel isolated, anxious, and powerless. This is not due to personal failure. Instead, it results from a societal system that opens doors for some while closing them for others.

The design of a civilization system is closely tied to the values within society. For the current human civilization, the key to progress lies in offering equal love and care for all. 

Yicheng Commonweal is actively working to ensure that everyone experiences both a sense of existence and participation, while enjoying the happiness and fulfillment of a civilized society.

I. The Root Causes of Exclusion in the Civilization System

1. The Alienation of Standardized Rules

Current civilization systems often rely on explicit or covert rules to maintain order. These rules may increase efficiency in the short term, but they tend to suppress diversity and individuality. Rigid rules often force people to adapt to the system, changing who they are in the process. Those who can’t meet the standards are often left out of the pursuit of happiness.

For example, many education systems still use standardized exams to measure students’ abilities. They overlook values like emotion and creativity, which can’t be quantified. The system sacrificed the potential of many kids and caused the overall creativity of future society to decline dramatically.

2. Unequal Distribution of Resources

In many societies, resource distribution is claimed to be “fair.” But in reality, the system frequently favors those who are already in a stronger position. While policies might talk about fairness, they often fail to address deeper, structural issues like the historical inequalities faced by certain groups. Simply providing equal resources doesn’t solve the problem if no targeted interventions are made.

Take the widening wealth gap, for example. Or how top-tier education and healthcare are concentrated in certain areas. These issues have put many people at a disadvantage in the race for success. People marginalized by the system gradually lose their chance to pursue happiness. Struggling to meet basic needs, they are unable to nurture a sense of well-being.

Despite living on the same planet, people in different countries and regions experience vast disparities in living standards. People in developed countries can easily access benefits that others in underdeveloped areas have to work hard for. 

This disparity stems from differences in societal civilization systems. Resources tend to concentrate in more advanced systems, creating a significant injustice for those in less developed regions. Without systemic intervention or self-help efforts, this inequality will be difficult to resolve.

3. The Alienation of Technological Progress

Technology has made our civilization systems more efficient, but it has also created new forms of isolation. Take artificial intelligence and automation, for example. While they have increased productivity, they are going to replace many traditional jobs. As a result, many workers feel a loss of value and a fear of losing their jobs.

At the same time, social media and digital technologies, while connecting people from around the world, often make us feel lost in opinions and attacks from various sides. In this digital age, it is harder to form real emotional connections, and this erodes our sense of happiness.

4. The Suppression of Cultural Diversity

In modern societies, dominant cultures shape the civilization system, often overlooking the needs of diverse cultures. Groups that don’t align with mainstream values or lifestyles face marginalization and, in some cases, discrimination. Immigrants, ethnic minorities, and gender minorities often find themselves labeled as outsiders. Their sense of identity and happiness is continually suppressed.

II. The Far-reaching Impact of Exclusion on Happiness

1. A Crisis in Mental Health

People who are excluded often experience feelings of loneliness and helplessness, which can lead to a mental health crisis. The widespread rise in depression and anxiety is partly due to the civilization system’s failure to address individual psychological needs. 

When individuals are forced to fit into a system that doesn’t admit their values as a person, their mental resilience weakens. This decline in well-being can result in burnout, social anxiety, autism, and even conditions like agoraphobia or manic depression.

2. Indifferent Interpersonal Relationships

In today’s fast-paced world, the drive for efficiency often comes at the cost of real human connections. With everyone relying more on digital communication, there’s little time left for face-to-face interactions that truly build relationships. 

As a result, emotional connections become rarer, and our sense of happiness starts to weaken. People become more guarded in their social interactions, and the overall atmosphere feels colder. In fact, “Don’t bother others” has become the unspoken rule of the day.

3. A Loss of Sense

Happiness is not just about material wealth—it also needs a deeper sense of meaning. However, current value systems focus more on external markers of success, like wealth and status, while neglecting the nurturing and appreciation of inner values. Many civilization systems are built on this collective value system.

As a result, those who feel excluded from this system lose their sense of control over life. They struggle to find personal meaning, drifting into a “vacuum” of happiness—lost, confused, and uncertain of where to turn next.

II. Breaking the Cycle of Exclusion: The Path to True Happiness

1. People-oriented Institutional Reform

Civilization systems need to shift from an “efficiency-first” approach to a “people-oriented” one. For example, education systems should focus more on personalized development, honoring each child’s unique talents. Healthcare systems should aim for universal coverage, easing the health anxieties of vulnerable groups. True happiness can only be achieved when institutional designs meet the basic needs of every individual.

2. Creating an Inclusive Culture

Civilization systems need to embrace diverse cultural expressions and respect different lifestyles. Through legislation and social advocacy, we can reduce discrimination and prejudice against vulnerable groups. Cultural events and community building can foster greater understanding and empathy between groups, allowing everyone to feel the warmth of acceptance.

3. Reshaping the People-Technology Connection

The role of technological progress should be to foster human well-being, not deepen exclusion. For example, as digital technologies are introduced, we need to ensure they are accessible to the elderly and low-income groups. 

Similarly, in the case of artificial intelligence, it’s crucial to implement policies that protect workers’ rights and create pathways for reemployment for those whose jobs are lost. Otherwise, the wealth gap will continue to grow and aggravate inequality.

4. Redefining Happiness and Success

Happiness shouldn’t be defined by wealth, status, or material success. True fulfillment comes from pursuing personal values beyond external achievements. In a world where burnout and mental health struggles are common, society needs to shift focus from external success to internal well-being.

Through education and media, we can help people see that happiness is about meaningful connections, a sense of community, and harmony with nature. The diverse definitions of happiness in society can reduce external stress and peer pressure, allowing them to embrace a wider range of lifestyles and cultures.

III. Conclusion

The unhappiness many people feel comes from being excluded by the civilization systems. To address the problem, it is necessary to reconsider the underlying values and design of these systems in our society. Instead of rigid rules, we need to prioritize inclusivity. Happiness is not an unattainable goal, but a right for everyone.

When the value of collective well-being is advocated and practiced in the systems, people will find a sense of belonging and meaning. Only then can we experience true joy and embrace endless progress in our society.

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不要因为别人错了,自己也去犯错

Daohe · Jan 4, 2025

一个广为流传的视频中,小女孩因遭遇嘲讽而尊严受损,她本能地动怒,并选择用暴力反击。她的母亲及时阻止了她,说出了那句核心的话:“不要因为别人错了,自己也去犯错。”这句话之所以能触动无数人,因为它精准地指向了文明社会最脆弱,却也最关键的环节:在“失序”发生时,人如何行使自己的选择权。一个社会之所以走向混乱,其根源往往不是因为第一个人犯了错,而是因为绝大多数人选择用同样的错误去回应;一个社会之所以能保持稳定与秩序,则是因为多数成员选择截断这种错误的恶性繁殖。文明,从来不是由少数精英在顶层设计出来的,而是由无数普通人“愿意守住底线”的日常选择,一寸一寸地支撑起来的。 在现代社会结构中,人际的张力与冲突日益增多,其触发点往往是情绪的连锁反应,而非理性的权衡。一个侮辱性的眼神、一句刻薄的言辞、一个莫须有的误会,都足以将个体推向“以牙还牙,以眼还眼”的原始冲动,陷入“以恶制恶”的逻辑深渊。然而,文明之所以为文明,恰恰在于它超越了这种原始的反应模式。文明社会并非没有冲突,而是建立了一套更高级的冲突处理机制。 “不要因为别人错了,自己也去犯错”,这不仅是一句朴素的生活劝诫,更是现代文明赖以维系的结构性底线。它既是上帝(或曰“超越性的道德法则”)对人性中“自由意志”的终极考验,也是个体公民对社会契约的无声承诺,更是制度文明对所有成员的根本期待。 1. 不以恶制恶,是文明的基石 法治文明存在的全部意义,不是为了让“恶”与“恶”在丛林法则中相互抵消,而是为了确保“恶”最终被制度所终结。当我们选择“以恶制恶”时,我们实际上是在用行动否定社会赖以运作的全部规则,我们成为了我们所反对的“恶”的同谋。 一个社会文明的成熟度,不在于它是否能杜绝冲突,而在于冲突被以何种方式处理:是让情绪支配行为,使个体退化为本能的奴隶?是让暴力诱发暴力,使社会陷入冤冤相报的循环?还是以制度回应不公,以理性约束愤怒,以程序重塑正义? 当一个社会的大多数成员都开始用错误对抗错误,社会秩序必然会滑向“谁的拳头更硬,谁的嗓门更大,谁就掌握真理”的原始状态。在那样的状态下,法律被践踏,道德被瓦解,正义将成为最昂贵的奢侈品。因此,不以恶制恶,绝非软弱,而是一种最高形式的文明力量。它代表着一种清醒的战斗方式——用高一级的秩序(法治与理性)来终结低一级的混乱(情绪与暴力)。一个文明能够延续,不是因为它能彻底消灭人性的幽暗,而是因为绝大多数人愿意相信:正义的实现,最终不依靠私人的拳头,而依靠公共的制度。 2. 面对不公,是公民责任的试金石 上帝(或曰“宇宙法则”)赋予人自由意志,其最高贵的体现,不是让人随心所欲地发泄,而是在面临严峻考验时,依然有能力选择光明。而“选择光明的能力”,最能体现在个体面对不公与侵害的时刻。任何人都可以在风平浪静时谈论道德与宽容,但只有在承受愤怒、痛楚、屈辱与误解时,仍能坚守原则、克制报复冲动的人,才是真正意义上的文明公民。 面对不公,我们至少有三类选择:沉默与逃避:这看似无害,实则是对恶的纵容,让不公得以“得寸进尺”。以恶制恶:这是最本能、最解气的选择,但它让恶像病毒一样循环扩大,最终吞噬所有人。坚持规则、保持善意、合法维权:在保护自身的同时,坚定地维护公义的程序。第三种选择无疑最难,因为它要求极高的理性和韧性。但这恰恰是唯一能够推动社会健康运转、走向良性循环的选择。这并非懦弱,而是个体自觉地承担起“公民”这一身份的重负。因为我们不是孤立的原子,我们的每一个行为都在塑造社会的走向,我们的每一次选择都在为下一代示范“何为正义”。上帝(或“命运”)让我们在黑暗中经受灵魂的考验,其目的不是为了让我们成为黑暗的一部分,而是为了让我们证明自己有能力成为黑暗中的光。 3. 公民权力的使用,是社会进步的力量 文明的真正进步,其驱动力绝非来自情绪的宣泄,而是来自公民主动地、有序地、合法地行使自己手中的权力。当我们遭遇不公时,我们拥有远比走向暴力更丰富、更强大的路径:用法律的武器捍卫自身权利,启动正义的程序;用理性的沟通与论述影响他人,凝聚共识;用积极的公民参与推动制度的完善,弥补漏洞;用持久的社会行动促成法规的更新与文化的变迁。 历史上确实不乏以武力抗争换取变革的例子,但这些例子无不伴随着巨大的社会撕裂、深重的代价损耗,且其结果往往充满不确定性。真正可持续的、稳固的社会进步,最终必须落实在制度改革、法规更新与文化变迁上。情绪是火,但制度才是光 火能烧出一瞬间的亮光,却极易失控,将整座城市化为灰烬;光能穿透最深的黑暗,照亮前路,却从不毁灭世界。纵观人类文明的伟大变革者——甘地、曼德拉、罗莎·帕克斯——他们都不是“以恶制恶”的信徒。他们恰恰是用至高的道义、对法律的坚信、对制度的耐心去打破不义的枷锁。他们用行动证明了一个事实:当一个人选择以成熟的公民方式行动时,他所激发的道德力量,远比暴力的物理力量更持久、更深远、更具文明的重量。 4. 善良与正义,是我们共同的责任 善良,不是一种转瞬即逝的情绪,而是一种基于原则的理性选择;正义,不是一种高高在上的姿态,而是一种必须践行的日常行动。当我们因为他人的错误而选择放弃自己的善良、放弃对法律的信仰、放弃对正义的追求时,我们就等于亲手把这个世界的主导权让渡给了“恶”。反之,当我们坚持善良、坚守法治、坚持公义时,我们就在暗夜的海面上点亮了灯塔,让更多迷航的人看到正确的航道。一个文明社会的底色,不是由极少数圣人的高尚决定的,而是由无数普通人在关键时刻的“选择”叠加而成的。你选择理性,社会就多一分光;你选择公义,制度就多一分力量;你选择坚守原则,文明就多一分稳固。 正如《圣经·弥迦书》所言:“世人哪,耶和华已指示你何为善。他向你所要的是什么呢?只要你行公义,好怜悯,存谦卑的心,与你的神同行。”这是一个公民与超越性的道德法则之间,最庄严的契约。我们行公义,不是因为别人行了公义;我们好怜悯,也不是因为别人值得怜悯。我们这样做,是因为这是我们作为“人”的责任。 […]

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