Unhappiness Stems From Exclusive Civilization Systems

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Yicheng · Nov 28, 2024
The design of a civilization system is closely tied to the values within society. For the current human civilization, the key to progress lies in offering equal love and care for all. 

Happiness is a universal goal and a driving force for creation. Yet, in a world shaped by complex systems and rapid technological change, many of us often feel isolated, anxious, and powerless. This is not due to personal failure. Instead, it results from a societal system that opens doors for some while closing them for others.

The design of a civilization system is closely tied to the values within society. For the current human civilization, the key to progress lies in offering equal love and care for all. 

Yicheng Commonweal is actively working to ensure that everyone experiences both a sense of existence and participation, while enjoying the happiness and fulfillment of a civilized society.

I. The Root Causes of Exclusion in the Civilization System

1. The Alienation of Standardized Rules

Current civilization systems often rely on explicit or covert rules to maintain order. These rules may increase efficiency in the short term, but they tend to suppress diversity and individuality. Rigid rules often force people to adapt to the system, changing who they are in the process. Those who can’t meet the standards are often left out of the pursuit of happiness.

For example, many education systems still use standardized exams to measure students’ abilities. They overlook values like emotion and creativity, which can’t be quantified. The system sacrificed the potential of many kids and caused the overall creativity of future society to decline dramatically.

2. Unequal Distribution of Resources

In many societies, resource distribution is claimed to be “fair.” But in reality, the system frequently favors those who are already in a stronger position. While policies might talk about fairness, they often fail to address deeper, structural issues like the historical inequalities faced by certain groups. Simply providing equal resources doesn’t solve the problem if no targeted interventions are made.

Take the widening wealth gap, for example. Or how top-tier education and healthcare are concentrated in certain areas. These issues have put many people at a disadvantage in the race for success. People marginalized by the system gradually lose their chance to pursue happiness. Struggling to meet basic needs, they are unable to nurture a sense of well-being.

Despite living on the same planet, people in different countries and regions experience vast disparities in living standards. People in developed countries can easily access benefits that others in underdeveloped areas have to work hard for. 

This disparity stems from differences in societal civilization systems. Resources tend to concentrate in more advanced systems, creating a significant injustice for those in less developed regions. Without systemic intervention or self-help efforts, this inequality will be difficult to resolve.

3. The Alienation of Technological Progress

Technology has made our civilization systems more efficient, but it has also created new forms of isolation. Take artificial intelligence and automation, for example. While they have increased productivity, they are going to replace many traditional jobs. As a result, many workers feel a loss of value and a fear of losing their jobs.

At the same time, social media and digital technologies, while connecting people from around the world, often make us feel lost in opinions and attacks from various sides. In this digital age, it is harder to form real emotional connections, and this erodes our sense of happiness.

4. The Suppression of Cultural Diversity

In modern societies, dominant cultures shape the civilization system, often overlooking the needs of diverse cultures. Groups that don’t align with mainstream values or lifestyles face marginalization and, in some cases, discrimination. Immigrants, ethnic minorities, and gender minorities often find themselves labeled as outsiders. Their sense of identity and happiness is continually suppressed.

II. The Far-reaching Impact of Exclusion on Happiness

1. A Crisis in Mental Health

People who are excluded often experience feelings of loneliness and helplessness, which can lead to a mental health crisis. The widespread rise in depression and anxiety is partly due to the civilization system’s failure to address individual psychological needs. 

When individuals are forced to fit into a system that doesn’t admit their values as a person, their mental resilience weakens. This decline in well-being can result in burnout, social anxiety, autism, and even conditions like agoraphobia or manic depression.

2. Indifferent Interpersonal Relationships

In today’s fast-paced world, the drive for efficiency often comes at the cost of real human connections. With everyone relying more on digital communication, there’s little time left for face-to-face interactions that truly build relationships. 

As a result, emotional connections become rarer, and our sense of happiness starts to weaken. People become more guarded in their social interactions, and the overall atmosphere feels colder. In fact, “Don’t bother others” has become the unspoken rule of the day.

3. A Loss of Sense

Happiness is not just about material wealth—it also needs a deeper sense of meaning. However, current value systems focus more on external markers of success, like wealth and status, while neglecting the nurturing and appreciation of inner values. Many civilization systems are built on this collective value system.

As a result, those who feel excluded from this system lose their sense of control over life. They struggle to find personal meaning, drifting into a “vacuum” of happiness—lost, confused, and uncertain of where to turn next.

II. Breaking the Cycle of Exclusion: The Path to True Happiness

1. People-oriented Institutional Reform

Civilization systems need to shift from an “efficiency-first” approach to a “people-oriented” one. For example, education systems should focus more on personalized development, honoring each child’s unique talents. Healthcare systems should aim for universal coverage, easing the health anxieties of vulnerable groups. True happiness can only be achieved when institutional designs meet the basic needs of every individual.

2. Creating an Inclusive Culture

Civilization systems need to embrace diverse cultural expressions and respect different lifestyles. Through legislation and social advocacy, we can reduce discrimination and prejudice against vulnerable groups. Cultural events and community building can foster greater understanding and empathy between groups, allowing everyone to feel the warmth of acceptance.

3. Reshaping the People-Technology Connection

The role of technological progress should be to foster human well-being, not deepen exclusion. For example, as digital technologies are introduced, we need to ensure they are accessible to the elderly and low-income groups. 

Similarly, in the case of artificial intelligence, it’s crucial to implement policies that protect workers’ rights and create pathways for reemployment for those whose jobs are lost. Otherwise, the wealth gap will continue to grow and aggravate inequality.

4. Redefining Happiness and Success

Happiness shouldn’t be defined by wealth, status, or material success. True fulfillment comes from pursuing personal values beyond external achievements. In a world where burnout and mental health struggles are common, society needs to shift focus from external success to internal well-being.

Through education and media, we can help people see that happiness is about meaningful connections, a sense of community, and harmony with nature. The diverse definitions of happiness in society can reduce external stress and peer pressure, allowing them to embrace a wider range of lifestyles and cultures.

III. Conclusion

The unhappiness many people feel comes from being excluded by the civilization systems. To address the problem, it is necessary to reconsider the underlying values and design of these systems in our society. Instead of rigid rules, we need to prioritize inclusivity. Happiness is not an unattainable goal, but a right for everyone.

When the value of collective well-being is advocated and practiced in the systems, people will find a sense of belonging and meaning. Only then can we experience true joy and embrace endless progress in our society.

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修行之人:大觉者必然是大世者

Master Wonder · Apr 15, 2025

提要:短文一篇,适合信仰修行者。 “修行”二字,往往被误解为远离尘世、闭目清修,仿佛只有在山林古刹之中才有“道”的回音。然而,真正的修行,从来不是逃避世界,而是透过世界,识破世界,超越世界。而能大觉者,必先为大世者。 大世者,乃体验世界、悟解世界之人。 他不逃避苦难,不回避复杂,也不拒绝人情世故;他入世深广,心眼敞开,在生老病死、荣辱沉浮、情爱利害中亲历体验,不以一己喜恶躲避真实。 他愿意活过整个“人”的全部过程,穿越欲望、恐惧、迷惑、失落与狂喜。他深入五浊恶世,不为浊所染,而是在其中锻炼出一颗不动之心。 没有深入世界的人,无法真正觉知人生的虚妄与实相;没有体验人性的幽微与苦痛,亦难窥见“空性”的深远。 许多修行人误以为断绝尘缘即可得道,殊不知闭门清净之中易生幻觉——以为自己已远离烦恼,实则烦恼只是暂时未被触动。 唯有大世之人,才可能真切而深刻地通达众生苦乐、生命本质,从而升起大悲、大智、大愿。 释迦牟尼曾贵为太子,却不恋王宫富贵,而是踏入人世之苦,亲历病患、死亡、衰老之无常,由“观苦”而觉悟四谛,成就无上正觉。 他未尝舍世而成佛,乃由深观此世而得“出世”。 耶稣亦非天上之神祇,高高在上地俯视世人,而是以血肉之躯行于尘世,与罪人同行,与贫者共处,经历人间之背叛与十字架之苦,才化身为神圣之道。 大道从来不在庙堂深处,而在人间烟火中。 大觉者,必然是大世者。 因为只有真正见过黑暗,才知道光的方向;只有体验过深沉之痛,才会长出悲悯之心;只有彻底融入世界,才能彻底超越世界。 修行不是修一个“我”远离世界,而是修一个“我”能承载整个世界,并在承载之中,看破它的虚妄,识得它的真相。 故修行者不可浅尝即止,不可避世求安,而要有大心量、大气魄,敢于与世界同呼吸共苦乐。 不是为了沉迷世间,而是为了悟透世间;不是为满足我执,而是为了超越我执;不是为了成为某种“成功修行者”的形象,而是为了脱去一切形象,直面真实的生命流动。 一切成道之人,必是深度活过的人;一切大觉之人,必是大世之人。 他们不拒世界,也不依赖世界。 他们活得比谁都深、都真,然后从尘土中站起,以真实的觉知与清醒回望世界。 如莲花出于淤泥,芬芳不染;如慧灯照见世相,明心而不迷心。 一乘公益奉献此文。

被名声推倒的“大和尚”

Master Wonder · Apr 11, 2025

本文基于个人的见闻,适合修行者阅读。 佛门古刹丛林中,时常可见一些所谓“大和尚”被名声所推拥而上,居于高位。然细观其行,修证尚浅,功夫未成,不过因世人敬仰、名声骤起,遂为虚荣心所挟,过早披上高僧之袈裟。 未得而自谓得,未悟而强说悟,其道心已在不觉间迷失于浮誉之中。 一念沉迷,如飞蛾扑火,初心虽存,却渐为名利所蚀,不能自拔。 久而久之,修行寸步难进,实令人惋叹。 一、误入名利之网 佛门有言:“名闻利养,修行之大贼也。”虚名最易招惹贪著之心,亦最能令道行之人起傲慢、落魔境。如古德所警:“很多修行人到后来着魔,正因名气一大,利养一多,贪心与傲慢随之而起。”名声如蜜,初尝甘甜,久则生黏,使人沉醉其中,不能自省。 未有实证的僧人,若骤得礼拜供养,便易误以为道业已成;赞誉盈耳,贡高我慢随之而生。贪嗔痴慢暗中增长,清净之心地为之蒙蔽,魔障亦由此而起。 昔日精进之志,也在种种应酬中日渐耗散。表面光鲜,实则空转;身披法衣,心离正道。 此辈既被名推而倒,便非身倒,而是心倒;非形弱,而是志失。其修行之根,已摇摇欲坠。 更有甚者,若耽于伪饰德相,自视甚高,便不但自误,亦误导众生。佛制明戒:“未得谓得,未证言证,是大妄语。” 若因名而生妄,虽无明言,内心亦犯实失。 久而久之,正信崩塌,德行损耗,堕落之路已悄然成型。或如提婆达多,因贪权夺势而堕入深渊,遗祸千古;或虽不至覆灭,亦如折翼之鸟,再难高飞于菩提之境。 二、明心见性,破妄归真 究其根本,修行之要,在于内观自性,不随外境所转。佛陀早示:众生本具如来智慧德相,惟妄想执著所障,故不能显现。换言之,自性之光本自圆明,惟因名利之尘覆之,令其黯淡。 “大和尚”之“大”,不在法座高低,众口称颂,而在其是否真实照见本心,明心见性。 唯有返照内心,破除执著,见诸法如幻,方可照亮修行之路。 如佛经所言:“名闻如暗影,惟智光内照,则影随光灭。”若以智慧观照自心,识得世间声名如镜花水月,便可安然行于红尘之中而不为其所染。 “自性光芒,照亮修行”。此为真修之道。外名可夺人耳目,却夺不了本性光明;浮荣可动人心志,却遮不住自心本觉。唯有慧眼自照,于妄中见真,于扰中守静,方为菩提正道。 三、淡泊明志,道在不言中 佛门中不乏警世之范,如印光大师、虚云老和尚等近代高僧,一生淡泊自守,不为名累,不受利役。十方供养,尽归弘法利生,不存毫末私心。正因他们以戒为体,以智慧自照,故能八风不动,荣辱不惊,愈陷尘劳,愈显道光。 由此可见,修行之根在己不在他;得道之要在证不在声。 外界千万人的敬仰,无法代替一人内心的觉悟;名利再盛,亦掩不住未明之心。 惟有自性光芒源源不息,日日照耀其心,方能守得寂寂道心,于喧嚣中自有一方清凉净土。 结语:返本归真,不负道心 僧人修行,贵在如莲花出淤泥而不染,身处红尘而心在道中。 凡被名声推上高位者,尤当时时自省:若德不配位,福难久持;若妄心生起,必招迷途。 自性光芒,照亮修行。唯返本归真,方不负出家初心;不逐名利,方可守得清净本愿;不迷虚妄,始得破妄归真。 愿一切修行者皆能以惭愧为衣,以清净为食,以定慧为灯,安住如如之境,行于无碍之道。如此,则道心不坠,菩提日增,既不致为名所推而倒,亦能于无声处,守得一灯长明。

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